Ok, I'm very curious

[taz]

I want to be sure what type my mom and dad are. Yes I can't wait anymore.

Mom

She can be bossy once in awhile.
She won't let people push her around.
She likes to be organize just don't actually put the effort.
My ENFP brother is really good at making her happy and getting her to laugh.
Might have a comparative realtionship with my dad.
Love her pets. She can get along with ISFJ's. Can be judging of people before getting to know them or get the reason why they behave this way or decide this way.
Is religous.
Loves to decorate gifts presents for people and gives them gifts.
On the myerbrig test she got ENTJ.
Refuse to take test's unless it's really, really short like five questions.
Very supportive of what I do as for college or career I want.
She has her own definition of the word help.
Can take being teased and teasing people.
Can be good at out smarting people on the internet.
Don't belive in something unless they have proof.
Career is office cleaner and house cleaner.
If feel comfterable like around the family and close friends might say something funny.
Get mad if I say she afraid of that person .
Too lazy to meet new people.
I do get along with her (of course she my mother so there are somethings we don't agree on). Very little we argue but not as much as my dad.
But I trust and know my mom better than my dad.

Dad
Won't except being teased but can tease us.
Likes to have power and feel important and up to him if we could do something or not.
Loves to be in control and it's scary when his voice gets loud.
I get along with him really well, I'm very good at making him laugh and have to make a fool of myself once in awhile. But get put down hard to make him self feel important once in awhile.
Like's to play favorites.
Don't understand and confuse and angry all at once and/or get irritated why girls get emotional and cry in tears.
Belive he is the head in the family.
Against religion.
Won't believe stuff until proven with facts and reason.
Loves to prove people wrong. Hate computers. Love to watch the news.
Smile alot. Loves to go fishing.
Love to use my ISTP brother to help him. So and so with my ENFP brother.
Like to impress his younger brother.
Get irritated if we move his stuff around.
Can be hard to tell when he is hurt in feelings or sorry for the person.
Refuse to take the soconic test even if it in spanish .
Like to go on vacation in very small groups or by himself.
Have attitude like he can have friends but we can't.
Career: Janitor at Elk lodge and office cleaner and hate his job.
Don't like animals but slowly liking animals. Sometimes hide his feelings but not as hiddien as my ISTP brother.
Not very many people he likes.
Again very little that my dad and I get in a arguement.

[Park]

It's very hard to guess by the information you provided, but I get an impression that your dad might be an ISTJ. Mom - ENFJ or INTJ(comparative)? See if this describes their relationship any good: http://www.socioniko.net/en/1.3.rels/dual-2j.html.

[Expat]

I agree, your dad sounds ISTj.

Your mom -- no idea. At first I thought ESTj, then ENFj, but neither sounds right.

[FDG]

Daddy ISTj.


Mommy....I don't think ENTj, since ENTjs should be your conflicting. ENFJ mabbe.

[taz]

Thanks for the input. Yeah I didn't think my mom was an ENTJ either.

Winterpark, sorry but the websight you gave me didn't work .

But I will describe my parents relationship. My dad slowly is showing more of his feeling side as the years go by. The reason they don't always get along is because my dad tend to get carried away as being the leader of our family and like to be in controll of almost everything and our lives. My mom don't let my dad get to carried away with pushing her around and stick up for her self and us. And when she talks back it can get ugly as my dad also talks back(and it goes back and forth firing each other with facts and reasons), but they get along alot better now than in the past. If it wasn't for us kids they would of gotten divorce. (it pretty funny to watch sometimes because it similar to when my ISTP brother and I get in an argument and when they both tell us to stop arguing and they argue about similar stuff ).

My dad can be too protective and the reason my dad and I also get in some arguments is he keep presuring me to go be the doctor when I don't want to. Want me to go to college. Sometimes I feel he invades in my space.
He does tend to ask questions that are repeats and sometimes dumb.
He not too good with financing stuff as he is also not a very patient person.
He is a hockey fan but won't play sports unless it like the game horse as he too afraid to loose if the sport is too competitive or his friends or relatives are around.
My dad and I get along really great 80% of the time.
He does give good back messages.
Best time to get away with my dad to go do stuff is when he on the phone .
Getting better dealing with it when we tease him with jokes.

My mom is more laid back than my dad toward me.
More willing to listen to my reasons and stories.
Can make goofy faces is she wants and act like a kid as long she know the people around her.
Let the people know say for example if the people sit in the row right in front of us. that she doesn't like it at all but won't do it for along time.
Fake crys in movie theater to see how many people she could get to cry.
Pretty good with financing stuff.
Don't pressure me as much as my dad about the future as long as I stay in my religion (even if I don't she won't get really mad at me).
She let go visit my friends as my dad most likely don't.
She can be whiny sometimes.
My mom and I get along 85% of the time.

I do love my parents very much.

[Creepy-]

Mom - ENFp
Dad - ISTp

Just a thought.

[Expat]

Mom - ENFp
Dad - ISTp

Just a thought.

No, what she described doesn't sound like a dual relationship.

I think your mom may be ESTj, although not everything fits.

That would mean:

Your parents: ESTj-ISTj contrary relationship
Your dad would be your beneficiary
Your mom: your supervisor
Your mom and your ENFp brother: activity

How does that sound?

[Park]

Winterpark, sorry but the websight you gave me didn't work .

Sorry, here it is again:

http://www.socioniko.net/en/1.3.rels/dual-2j.html

It should work now :wink:

[taz]

Winterpark, sorry but the websight you gave me didn't work .

Sorry, here it is again:

http://www.socioniko.net/en/1.3.rels/dual-2j.html

It should work now :wink:

Feeling coldness from the side of others, he shrinks into himself, becomes inaccessible and touchy. The Mentor sometimes lacks will power and is demanding of others concerning fulfillment of concrete work.

That part definitly sound like my dad. Except my dad expect perfection out of everyone except himself which can start problems with my mom. Very rare he admit he wrong or apolagize for the mistake he made. It is hard for my dad to say thankyou seriously and to get him to do the favor for someone beside his brother. My dad loves to watch adventure movies.

Thanks. Most of the description sound like my parents relationship. Really I'm not sure if there relationship is comparative or contrary just sound clost to how I get along with my ISTP brother .