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    Quote Originally Posted by ChibiKeba View Post
    We share a lot of the same interests such as pondering the complexities of the universe and human behavior, researching UFO mysteries, etc...

    ...I know most people here (the ones that remember me anyways) view me as I(?)Fp.
    I'm not sure about the relationship. But if I would have to choose between INFP and ISFP you seem an INFP. The ISFP falls asleep when discussing complexities, universe, behaviour etc.

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    Hmm, I know a guy exactly like that. But I don't know him personally that well, so I haven't been able to type him for certain. The one time we had a real discussion it was of the kind you describe where you have to cut through miles of bullshit and madness. What type do you think he is?
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    I've heard before now that ENFjs are meant to be very good at social manipulation, although I don't know whether this is an example of it or not and I wouldn't use that alone to type him. Saying THAT, I don't think that's a standard Socionics relation - sounds like he's got psychological issues that were causing the problems rather than anything type-related.
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    He sounds like me... in my unhealthy states.


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    ENFj as your friend's type makes a lot of sense. And if you are INFp it would be a relation of Activity/Activation
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    "Activity relations occur between two members of the same quadra who share either introversion or extroversion. Relations of activity can resemble duality since the super-id functions are both present in the ego functions of the other partner. However, activity relations are somewhat less fulfilling than dual relations. Each partner's dominant function is the others Hidden Agenda function. Activity relations are better suited to friendly correspondence.

    Activity relationships are often romantic if both partners find each other attractive. These relationships are often very easy to start, as both partners share either extroversion or introversion."
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    The part where you describe how you can talk about anything with your friend sounds a lot like what I do with an ENFj friend of mine (I treasure her greatly but we are not romantically involved).

    Alos ENFj for that unhealthy guy I mentioned earlier makes perfect sense in the overall context of the situation I dealt with him in. He was the love interest of another friend of mine and was treating her like shit. I got along really well with him at first until it became obvious he had problems. That almost duality vibe can be really confusing.

    Chibi, your story was very interesting, it made a lot of socionics puzzle pieces fall in place for me.
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