I wouldn't immediately rule out ENTp for you, strrrng. Extroversion in Socionics plays out differently than in MBTI. In other words, extroverts can be outwardly reserved, not the life of the party, etc.

Have you looked into functions at all? If so, which ones do you identify with, and in what ways?

Also, what qualities do you appreciate in others?

And could you give a short self-description?