Quote Originally Posted by Logos
And by any chance is this grandmother the wife of your grandfather who died? If so, that would seem incredibly peculiar for a long-term relationship/marriage between an INTj and an ESFp to last.
what? "you talkin' bout my grandma, bitch?". Seriously, what do you mean? I never mentioned my grandfather - her husband, who is alive and an ISTj.
Okay, I now know what I did. I was confusing you with another self-identified ILI who was talking about how ILI's grieve.