I find the ENFP differences really interesting.

Lately I've met a bunch of male ENFPs, not sure why. But I've noticed they seem so different from me. I think it's because male ENFPs can't always act they way they want to because of society.

One of them recently told me he totally over-compensates for being "nice" because he's in the miliary, i.e., he has beaten people up to prove a point, etc. I had noticed that w/ another male ENFP also, as far as being super into competitive sports (and doing well at them).

It just makes me wonder if it's possible for a male ENFP to just be nice and the way they are? I think it is.

Thoughts?