Quote Originally Posted by Expat
Quote Originally Posted by Expat
: unshakeable belief that you know exactly what is going to happen in your life in a given situation, or precipitated action since you know that "now is the time to act", but ending up shooting your own foot in both cases
ESI: more likely to be the case in taking action to "settle" a personal relationship one way or the other, or to "solve" a problem regarding work, money, or the like.

LSI: more likely to be the case in taking action to "destroying" an "enemy" or "making amends" with someone who, you fear, may otherwise "hate" you

I use quotes because I am talking about the intention -- the result is often the precise opposite
I relate to both of those. How do you know one is more likely than the other?