The pathetic hidden agenda

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aushra had this to say which I think is relevant

These same standards refer to the well-being of a person. Sensorik trusts his feelings and does not doubt when he is healthy, when he is ill: he is "feeling". This doctor must obey his concrete, real sensations, and not he unreasonable diagnoses of the doctor. If one doctor "did not find anything", he achieves his and goes to another. Intuitive, their own feelings seem less objective than diagnosis of a doctor. The diagnosis is a "normative", and it behaves accordingly to the diagnosis, and not according to the state of health.

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@Doggy ILEs tend to place things and others at the centre of perspective; their values and personal needs seem to be an afterthought to their primary interests although they do seem to have lots of wants. When ILEs consider their own needs, their perspectives can often have deep rooted concerns about how others would react. ILEs tend to realize a need for caregivers or people that will provide personal support because they don't want to be bothered themselves. Therefore, they occasionally tear themselves away from their own thoughts and make feeble attempts to woo supporters to their side, and it is this that is construed as needing “to be loved”.

a.k.a. I/O

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