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Mm yeah. Eye contact can be really nice but at the same time feel intense for me. If there's too much it just quickly reaches the point of being uncomfortable. And I start to wonder about the funny way I look, ahem. Esp if I like or admire the other person. I guess that sounds normal? Also just a matter of how I'd rather people pay attention to what I'm saying. If they're staring, it makes me feel like they're scrutinizing me instead.
With the ESI ex, it felt like he wasn't making eye-contact just because, I dunno, maybe he was having some thoughts he was mulling over, or just resting a bit. If I was talking, it did feel like he was listening. And anyway, I knew for sure he was listening and paying attention because later he'd bring stuff up that even I had half forgotten I said ha.
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