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  1. 03-06-2014, 03:30 AM #1
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    if you are identified correctly AND your "dual" is really your dual, then this is the best, breathtaking experience... It is not easy at first! because you are so different. but then... you live and breath in the same rhythm, you think the same thoughts... when you start talking - it goes for hours! and time flies. Among duals there is no competition, no counting who started what - information is tossed equally between them: one thought of something, the other took it only to give it back to the dual after processing it and making it refined... It's the best I've had... It's the best he's had... but we are not together... physically not...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fetornado View Post
    if you are identified correctly AND your "dual" is really your dual, then this is the best, breathtaking experience... It is not easy at first! because you are so different. but then... you live and breath in the same rhythm, you think the same thoughts... when you start talking - it goes for hours! and time flies. Among duals there is no competition, no counting who started what - information is tossed equally between them: one thought of something, the other took it only to give it back to the dual after processing it and making it refined... It's the best I've had... It's the best he's had... but we are not together... physically not...
    Is he traveling for work or something?

    I loved your description thank you
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    Is he traveling for work or something?

    I loved your description thank you
    he is my best friend and I trust him everything. Nothing physical - sex complicates everything. Why spoil something great? :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fetornado View Post
    he is my best friend and I trust him everything. Nothing physical - sex complicates everything. Why spoil something great? :-)
    Oh. I judged first but I realize it's not fair.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    Oh. I judged first but I realize it's not fair.
    I am guilty of it too! assume things on the spot! he he he
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    Here's a short view of my dual relations with my cousin
    I am typing on the IPain now (thanks Ann ) because it's annoying and hard. I just look at this video and say that it's only 38 seconds long imagine the length of this in 35 years that amounts to JOY


    http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...=1#post1002975
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fetornado View Post
    he is my best friend and I trust him everything. Nothing physical - sex complicates everything. Why spoil something great? :-)
    sex spoils things? Must be doing something wrong...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fetornado View Post
    if you are identified correctly AND your "dual" is really your dual, then this is the best, breathtaking experience... It is not easy at first! because you are so different. but then... you live and breath in the same rhythm, you think the same thoughts... when you start talking - it goes for hours! and time flies. Among duals there is no competition, no counting who started what - information is tossed equally between them: one thought of something, the other took it only to give it back to the dual after processing it and making it refined... It's the best I've had... It's the best he's had... but we are not together... physically not...
    Are you both single? Or are you in such a close friendship despite being in sexual/romantic relationships with other people?
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