pardon me

how do you get over a dislike of certain characteristics of a particular type?

i am aware of some mid-knee-jerk reactions to really S statements, for example.

I've recently discussed this with an ISTj friend. She also expressed some qualms about depending on logic.. meaning NT types.

Cone said something about contrary types working for all you are against.

I happen to like contrary relations but I am speaking in general about

your coping mechanisms for things that bother you about other types.

How would you use what socionics tell you to relate to others you have tension with?