What are the most reserved types of the introverts?
Well there's a thread about the most talkative extroverts, so conversely there should be a thread about the most reserved introverts? Plus I have one of my cousins in mind. He doesn't like going to cinemas at peak times when a lot of other people are going too. He hates crowds more than most. And generally has no problem being a home-body.
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ISFj or INFj, IMO.
Re: What are the most reserved types of the introverts?
I don't like crowds either. This could be more of an individual thing. My dad probably dislikes being around people more than I do and he's ISFp. I'll bet INTj or INTp would also be pretty quiet.Originally Posted by mr_maguoo
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Re: What are the most reserved types of the introverts?
If you are REALLY interested in creating symmetry then you might also make a thread about most talkative introverts and most reserved extroverts (!).
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Forgot to answer...I'm not sure. I guess I have to say INTp or ISTp but I might be wrong. Perhaps Fi-dominants are more reserved.
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hm maybe INTps when you first meet them, INFjs overall.
Speaking from experience. I only know INTjs, ISFps, INFps, ISFjs, ISTps.
My INTjs dad IMO can be the most introverted of the lot. He needs Fe from my mom. Or I see him pretty lost and can seem grumpy. ISFps are very talkative when in the right atmosphere. I don't know about the rest of the introverts.
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While LII are quite reserved, they can just as easily be brought out of it if they do not feel that they have to expend energy to protect their vulnerableand
and are given a proper environment of
. The turtle should come out of its shell, so to speak.
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costructcreating negativist accepting subtype IJs, so Fi-ISFjs
also constructcreating positivist accepting IPs, so Si-ISTps
the reasons are opposed
Now though, we have to clarify at what we mean as "reserved". If our boundary is sociability, then Fi-ISFjs are by far the least "sociable" type, meaning that they're the most likely to stay at home for months to end without particular qualms. Interaction-style-wise, though, Fi-ISFjs are less reserved than INTjs. After all, they're still double involved types. This involvement keeps them at home, but also renders them warm in the few interactions they get.
Si-ISTps, on the other hand, are a whole different matter. There doesn't seem to be much need for saying anything here, from their side. Reality is just that, and it's just the way they perceive it to be - thus not communicable - and they feel they can do pretty much what they want without having to bother about other people. But their involvment makes them appear more "sociable" being that they're not duty-bound, so given the possibility they'll roam wherever they want in the environment.
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ISTps are probably second, and thirdly INTps and INTjs.
I always think of Ij's being most reserved in general...
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It's kind of interesting how people find crowds more scary but you can blend in crowds a lot easier and usually with a small group you'll be required to open yourself up more. Unless you have to give a
I read somewhere that in big crowds/places people are actually more introverted and keep to themselves... and there are more extroverted-loving people in small towns. I guess that might make sense...
I miss the 'big city' sometimes. You could get a nice blowjob in the rest stop and not feel like you had to get super close to others and it felt good and empowering somewhat. But now I kinda want the best of both worlds. And I hate just being another 'face' in the crowd. Feels nihilistic. Sometimes comforting. Sometimes pointless.
I don't mind being introverted or extroverted really. I just hate feeling lonely. *cry* I realize that I always thrived on human contact... somewhat. Before I could go like weeks at a time w/o talking to anybody, now I'm not really like that at all once I've had just one person touch my heart. I keep trying to wait for that moment to connect with others again. We give our own space to each other though. I just had a Hallmark moment with my ESFj mom, but we only have them like once every three years.
I said before that I have to leave the house and mingle with other people at least once a week or I'll go insane and stir crazy. That's my absolute limit. Now I'm in a really chatty mood though and I just want somebody to talk to. PLZ BE MY FRIEND?
I think what they might be referring to is how in big cities people learn to keep their distance from people. You dont say hi to strangers, look straight ahead and dont ackknowledge them. In the country as its a smaller community it seems to be more laid back and people will be more friendly.
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It's kind of interesting how people find crowds more scary but you can blend in crowds a lot easier and usually with a small group you'll be required to open yourself up more. Unless you have to give a
I read somewhere that in big crowds/places people are actually more introverted and keep to themselves... and there are more extroverted-loving people in small towns. I guess that might make sense...
I miss the 'big city' sometimes. You could get a nice blowjob in the rest stop and not feel like you had to get super close to others and it felt good and empowering somewhat. But now I kinda want the best of both worlds. And I hate just being another 'face' in the crowd. Feels nihilistic. Sometimes comforting. Sometimes pointless.
I don't mind being introverted or extroverted really. I just hate feeling lonely. *cry* I realize that I always thrived on human contact... somewhat. Before I could go like weeks at a time w/o talking to anybody, now I'm not really like that at all once I've had just one person touch my heart. I keep trying to wait for that moment to connect with others again. We give our own space to each other though. I just had a Hallmark moment with my ESFj mom, but we only have them like once every three years.
I said before that I have to leave the house and mingle with other people at least once a week or I'll go insane and stir crazy. That's my absolute limit. Now I'm in a really chatty mood though and I just want somebody to talk to. PLZ BE MY FRIEND?
in terms of talkativeness (irl), in my experience, ISFx are the least talkative (overall). Probably because Fi & Si are the most non-verbal IME (?)
edited-to-add: and since process type is generally more introverted, it's probably the SEI-s who are the most 'introverted' oness.
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IP types, especially ILI.
As for IJ type, it's ESI.
Arthur Schopenhauer (ILI-Ni):
- “A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”
Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel (ILI-Te):
- "The history of the world is none other than the progress of the consciousness of freedom."
Imo ILIs (INTps) are the most reserved introvert. EIIs are a lot reserved too, but they still need to be among people so they may open up a bit.
I think IEIs depend more on the context. I see very reserved IEIs that with closest friends are very funny and lively.
ISFjs are reserved too, still their Se puts them in contexts where they open theirselves to others and may pursue fun.
the logical types, as they think less about relationships and their feelings towards others
1. SEI
2. ESI
3. LSI
4. SLI
5. EII
6. IEI
7. ILI
8. LII
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