I don't want to be ISTp anymore

[implied]

I got a feeling that the flirty or feely ENFPs aren't that sexual but more romantic, I think they enjoy it but not in a physical sense like us ISTPs do.

That makes a lot of sense, you being sensors who can enjoy sensations more. Im built to actually make the other person feel good though, it gives me no better pleasure to see someone delighted like that. ISTp = think like a guy about sex, ENFp = think like a girl about sex. I think about sex as a bonding and fun experience.

A perfect example of this is an ISTp ive been recently introduced to. Shes quite beautiful and smart and we both seem to like each other. Problem is one of my best friends was having casual sex with her. That stopped now but that seems to have ruined it for me. I know i should see sex as just some need to procreate and have fun. Unfortunately every time i think of them using each others bodies as play toys it just arouses negative emotions. Im going to keep hunting.

that's actually really sexy of you, ironically. haha.

[XoX]

You're really cool.

That actually was a really nice thing to say at that particular moment. Unless of course you were being sarcastic Don't tell me if you weeere.

[XoX]

one must never forget how important it is to be cool in the eyes of others.

can you translate that into elvin?

I'm only still learning I know that "him" = "cool"

Edit:
And I think it is _elven_ not elvin.

[meatburger]

that's actually really sexy of you, ironically. haha.

:wink: