Am I accepted in Gamma? :P

[eunice]

@ Joy, I think some of the "motivation" and real start of the bullying was pretty clear from the story Eunice told. The bullying started (like I pointed out before) when they felt that Eunice had less knowledge than she claimed to have.

That's how it all started with one of the individuals involved, but I don't think that was the motivation, even for that one person. His general impression of her and the way she responded to him were what caused him to think she was different in some way which required social ridicule and isolation.

I believe so. He was probably expecting an altercation, but I chose to withdraw since he was too stubborn to accept my explanation. There were a few classmates (mostly from public schools) who were picked on as well, but their issues were resolved after they had confronted the perpetrators. Rather than facing them head-on, I chose to feign ignorance because I had overestimated their maturity not to carry the joke too far, hoping that the problem would go away by itself after some time. Therefore, I believe what had exacerbated the problem was mainly due to my perceived indifference to the situation and their ignorance to my resulted negative inner feelings, since they stopped their antics after I gave them a very dramatic response. The ESTp individual was more pissed off by my "dishonest" attempt to make myself appear more intelligent than who I am, rather than my lack of knowledge. From there, he went on to try to find more fault in me, scrutinizing every mistake I had committed.

Yes that could be seen as Fe>Fi, but I think it's something else -- I mean, this is something that (for instance) Kim could also have written. Rather than Fe>Fi, I think it's her disappointment with the lack of inclusive Delta Aristocracy on part of the others. She's complaining about the lack of "inclusive Fi", rather than of Fe.

I was disappointed then that there seemed to be a lack of trust and honesty among every member of the class. For instance, I had wished that someone was frank and straightforward enough to approach me and tell me exactly what was going on as a reassurance that I wasn't imagining things about the gang, or perhaps protect me from the adversities I was facing. I felt rather uncomfortable about the fact that everyone else appeared to like one another on the surface, but they were also bitching about how they had tolerated certain individuals for a very long time behind their backs. I was like, "Why can't you tell him/her how you feel since we aren't strangers ? How hypocritical." I have always believed that unity is strength, but it wasn't present in my class because everyone was suspicious of one another's motives. As a result, we were constantly watching their backs and I couldn't stand been in an environment which seemed to lack peace.

[Joy]

INFj

[Gilly]

Yeah, Delta.

[eunice]

INFj

I believe that this option is most probable so far, even though I feel that I haven't been displaying a considerable amount of creative in my posts so far.

The individual likes to apply his analytical skills and insight to specific situations, relating them to the bigger picture. He also enjoys discussing idealized circumstances or what could be rather than what is. Consequently, he usually has high standards (even unreasonably so) for those around him.

[Expat]

The individual likes to apply his analytical skills and insight to specific situations, relating them to the bigger picture. He also enjoys discussing idealized circumstances or what could be rather than what is. Consequently, he usually has high standards (even unreasonably so) for those around him.

Actually you have --- when you mentioned, indirectly, how, ideally, those people should be caring about everyone.

[Joy]

I dunno, that sounds like you from where I'm sitting....

[Megan]

I don't get what's the point of protecting bullies? It doesn't really matter which type they are, it's starting to become nonsense that we have to refer to singular bullying behaviour because "Te bullies don't do this".

Bullying's not a function, and whoever bullies usually uses all bullying techniques. I don't know where you people have lived so far but as a kid I passed 13 years in a place full of them and guess what? They were all basically the same (except the boss of all bullies that was much smarter) kind of shit: dumb, ugly, fat, big - is this a fucking function?

I think you are right. This whole /ENTj bullies don't do this or that thing as argued in this thread seems overly idealistic and not in keeping with the general pattern of bullying behavior.