haha its not like telling someone they are a bad kisser in a mean way if they really are a bad kisser is like, totally ok.

seriously, i dont think apologizing has anything to do with how the other person has acted towards you. I have to apologize for my part in things, most times. If they laugh at me they can fuck off

Though, this hasn't really served me well. An ENT types tell me, "it must be exhausting being you" for this reason.