Evil love tactics is what I call her actions (and yours BTW). Sure, she's hurting so she's going to try to get you.

And you got her back. What a nice little memory you both have now.

Maybe better, though, than talking about your feelings with someone who's been vindictive towards you. I mean what are you really going to do with someone like that? Where's the feelings discussion going to get ya?

I usually want to retaliate when someone gets me. It's like a self respect thing. I'm never sure about all the feelings I have about myself after I retaliate though and whether it's worth it or not.