Types, Quadra: Fidelity vs Infidelity

[FDG]

It's not okay if she says to me "you're wonderful", yes you're totally right if you're referring to that case.

Of course I think that a dump-for-somebody-else can only happen when the relationship with the other is already a wreck. I didn't take into consideration other options.

[Expat]

Of course I think that a dump-for-somebody-else can only happen when the relationship with the other is already a wreck. I didn't take into consideration other options.

I think that the whole premise on which Slacker Mom and I based our argumentation is a situation where the dumpee is oblivious to what's going and even happy, all while the dumper is already thinking of someone else. Not a situation where there is reciprocity involved.