An interesting fellow

[xyz]

Definitely seems to be a ISTP to me.

+Dedicated Daredevil (He's not dedicated because he doesn't know if he can climb the tree. He KNOWS he can. It's fun showing off )

+Tinkerer (I started tinkering when I was 4)

+Those "I don't know, i don't know" Roundabouts mimic my first relationship with a girl

+Those "First very silent, very awkward" situations mimic my current relationship (She's an ENFJ)

+Just because he's an S type doesn't mean he hates intuitive thought. We're just better (and PREFER) sensing.

All in all, from what you've mentioned about him, he seems to be a ISTP type to me.

Me and another ISTP agreed earlier. Oh, and enjoy your relationship!

[ScarlettLux]

Definitely seems to be a ISTP to me.

+Dedicated Daredevil (He's not dedicated because he doesn't know if he can climb the tree. He KNOWS he can. It's fun showing off )

+Tinkerer (I started tinkering when I was 4)

+Those "I don't know, i don't know" Roundabouts mimic my first relationship with a girl

+Those "First very silent, very awkward" situations mimic my current relationship (She's an ENFJ)

+Just because he's an S type doesn't mean he hates intuitive thought. We're just better (and PREFER) sensing.

All in all, from what you've mentioned about him, he seems to be a ISTP type to me.

Me and another ISTP agreed earlier. Oh, and enjoy your relationship!

Lmao...

Oh dear. I'm in a conflict relationship? Wow hahaha. I traded Duality relationship for Conflict. How amusing!
And it's actually much better than the Duality one was.. oh, Socionics.. how can you stand up now?

Actually I am back to thinking he is INTj.
Um, why do you say he is a tinkerer? Haha, when did I ever mention anything in regards to that?
He likes anime. I don't know many ISTps who waste their time idly watching anime and really enjoying it. Odd.

[xyz]

Sorry, I must've confused a point from another thread.

Either way, if he's really an ISTp (Which only you can tell, really) then good luck. It's not impossible, but it sure is DAMN hard, and draining. The sex is fantastic though.

EDIT: Well, does he spend hours of watching tons of different types of anime, or are there 2 or 3 anime's that he likes to watch, and ends it there?

[astralsilky]

Oh dear. I'm in a conflict relationship? Wow hahaha. I traded Duality relationship for Conflict. How amusing!
And it's actually much better than the Duality one was.. oh, Socionics.. how can you stand up now?

Again, fwiw, you've never struck me as being a Beta NF type.

[ScarlettLux]

Oh dear. I'm in a conflict relationship? Wow hahaha. I traded Duality relationship for Conflict. How amusing!
And it's actually much better than the Duality one was.. oh, Socionics.. how can you stand up now?

Again, fwiw, you've never struck me as being a Beta NF type.

Oh really? Care to explain yourself?

[ScarlettLux]

Sorry, I must've confused a point from another thread.

Either way, if he's really an ISTp (Which only you can tell, really) then good luck. It's not impossible, but it sure is DAMN hard, and draining. The sex is fantastic though.

EDIT: Well, does he spend hours of watching tons of different types of anime, or are there 2 or 3 anime's that he likes to watch, and ends it there?

No, he watches quite a lot of different types. Anyway, this is weird because I get a very good vibe from you. And here again we are supposed to be conflictors. Usually I can tell straight away even online if a person will not "jive" with me..

[xyz]

Well then, at this point, I guess the best thing to do is wing it!

[ScarlettLux]

Well then, at this point, I guess the best thing to do is wing it!

Haha, true..

BTW: some other random facts about him.. He likes to read a lot of biology textbooks... he wants to become a doctor. He seems to have "deep" interests rather than "broad" characteristic of an introvert. It really sucks that all I know is he is an introverted thinker. Rationality vs. Irrationality is even difficult to tell. Really strange because that is usually one of the easiest things for me to notice.

[astralsilky]

Oh dear. I'm in a conflict relationship? Wow hahaha. I traded Duality relationship for Conflict. How amusing!
And it's actually much better than the Duality one was.. oh, Socionics.. how can you stand up now?

Again, fwiw, you've never struck me as being a Beta NF type.

Oh really? Care to explain yourself?

No.



But regardless, -- I have often communicated in writing with ENFps, INFps and ENFjs. By comparison, you do not give off the same Beta NF vibes with your general views, ways of processing info, and use of language. I have yet to see strong Ni in you (e.g., jumping to ontological conclusions in a black/white sort of way). Beta NFs are swift in making value judgments and tend to overdramatize ... things you do not seem to do (at least, not like they do). You seem to value being emotionally (upfront, candid and spontaneous) more than social appearances/"protocol." You also seem more conceptually broadminded - willing to not only ask the questions, but ENTERTAIN the ideas you receive. IME, Beta NFs often seem to ask conceptual "why" questions, but seem to leave the answers they receive hanging out in thin air, quickly responding with hallmark restless "oh, i don't know" ... like they PREFER the ambiguity. I think delta NFs may also struggle with conceptual and data ambiguity at times, but are genuinely interested and feel better when they received SOLID ANSWERS (Te), especially from the delta ST's.) Fi > Fe, Ne > Ni.

Maybe I'm wrong, but you can factor this bit o` data into your typological soup, there, as you puzzle your relationship out with your mystery friend ...

[ScarlettLux]

I was always under the impression that solid answers was actually ... internal logic. They have already thought and figured things out and just say the answer. ExFjs love that, no? is more like spewing of facts.

[astralsilky]

I was always under the impression that solid answers was actually ... internal logic. They have already thought and figured things out and just say the answer. ExFjs love that, no? is more like spewing of facts.

I agree that Te can make for some great fact-spewing. But it seems like 7th functions can also show up pretty strongly ... and "unruly" at that.


Btw -- your stained glass avatar image also seems Ne >> Ni from a psycho-aesthetics standpoint. :wink:

[ScarlettLux]

I was always under the impression that solid answers was actually ... internal logic. They have already thought and figured things out and just say the answer. ExFjs love that, no? is more like spewing of facts.

I agree that Te can make for some great fact-spewing. But it seems like 7th functions can also show up pretty strongly ... and "unruly" at that.


Btw -- your stained glass avatar image also seems Ne >> Ni from a psycho-aesthetics standpoint. :wink:

Mhm, but I've read water is greatly associated with and I have a strange bond with all kinds of water imagery. Nah, my is very strong, I believe.

[astralsilky]

I was always under the impression that solid answers was actually ... internal logic. They have already thought and figured things out and just say the answer. ExFjs love that, no? is more like spewing of facts.

I agree that Te can make for some great fact-spewing. But it seems like 7th functions can also show up pretty strongly ... and "unruly" at that.


Btw -- your stained glass avatar image also seems Ne >> Ni from a psycho-aesthetics standpoint. :wink:

Mhm, but I've read water is greatly associated with and I have a strange bond with all kinds of water imagery. Nah, my is very strong, I believe.

Water ~ emotions (typically), but I can see how one would attribute it to Ni b/c of continuous flow. But what I had noticed about your image was the fragmented look of stained glass. (Although, obviously we can't type someone simply based on an avatar! So please just consider this speculation as a mere curiosity.)

[ScarlettLux]

I was always under the impression that solid answers was actually ... internal logic. They have already thought and figured things out and just say the answer. ExFjs love that, no? is more like spewing of facts.

I agree that Te can make for some great fact-spewing. But it seems like 7th functions can also show up pretty strongly ... and "unruly" at that.


Btw -- your stained glass avatar image also seems Ne >> Ni from a psycho-aesthetics standpoint. :wink:

Mhm, but I've read water is greatly associated with and I have a strange bond with all kinds of water imagery. Nah, my is very strong, I believe.

Water ~ emotions (typically), but I can see how one would attribute it to Ni b/c of continuous flow. But what I had noticed about your image was the fragmented look of stained glass. (Although, obviously we can't type someone simply based on an avatar! So please just consider this speculation as a mere curiosity.)

Yeah, lmao, I know, I'm just going along with it.

The one thing that points to me being not INFp or ENFj is my temperament. I am very much of EP temperament than anything else, I read all of them carefully on WikiSocionics.. and all my friends nearly are EPs or IPs.

[astralsilky]

I was always under the impression that solid answers was actually ... internal logic. They have already thought and figured things out and just say the answer. ExFjs love that, no? is more like spewing of facts.

I agree that Te can make for some great fact-spewing. But it seems like 7th functions can also show up pretty strongly ... and "unruly" at that.


Btw -- your stained glass avatar image also seems Ne >> Ni from a psycho-aesthetics standpoint. :wink:

Mhm, but I've read water is greatly associated with and I have a strange bond with all kinds of water imagery. Nah, my is very strong, I believe.

Water ~ emotions (typically), but I can see how one would attribute it to Ni b/c of continuous flow. But what I had noticed about your image was the fragmented look of stained glass. (Although, obviously we can't type someone simply based on an avatar! So please just consider this speculation as a mere curiosity.)

Yeah, lmao, I know, I'm just going along with it.

hee hee

(Sometimes I have to clarify these things ... ppl may misunderstand and take things too much and too seriously at face value ...)

The one thing that points to me being not INFp or ENFj is my temperament. I am very much of EP temperament than anything else, I read all of them carefully on WikiSocionics.. and all my friends nearly are EPs or IPs.

Hmm.