Visiting Beta Quadra

[Blaze]

so the betas can "take it" when a person is yelling and bitching and pointing out their flaws?

Don't get surprised if you find yourself being physically beaten because of your lack of common fucking sense

don't think this is what i meant darkstar.

[UDP]

UDP, I think you'd best speak to another ST-type to figure out how to handle an ISTj, because they remain a mystery to me as well. As far as I know, ENFj-ISTj duality works like any other duality in that each partner sticks to what they're most comfortable doing. The ISTj yields to the ENFj in emotional matters or matters of long-range planning that require , but as far as or matters are concerned, ISTjs are incredibly stubborn and set in their ways. Sometimes even logical arguments roll off their backs if it means they must change something they've "always" done, or admit fault of any kind. Be prepared for a shouting match in a scenario like that.
But as for the person you're describing, are you sure she's not an Se-subtype ISFj? Granted I don't know many ISFjs, but most ISTjs I've known aren't very concerned about etiquette or interpersonal relations.

It is an ISTj. leading -- not looking for at all from a dual.

Last night when we interacted, it was not a problem at all. I am not sure how to interpret this, but one thing that person is good at is "getting over" things, and not really holding a grudge, supposedly. This LSI can dwell on things when they arise, but it seems like once it gets it out of its system, it is fine.


(I have said "it" in reference to the person so as to not reveal gender, not because I see it as "something less than human, or beneath me")