My estp insecure buddy/neighbor for 5 years is losing it. Oldham claims them to be self-confident, however he's admitted his lack of self-confidence to me and another close friend. Unfortunately over time, he's gone completely insecure about my relationship with him (polr?), which pisses me off because we obviously have 5 years of loyalty and friendship in which he seems to have forgotten (weak suggestive
?).
A few questions are what I have.
1. Are all those who are weak in theneed present time emotional support? I still have appreciation and love for friends that I have spent time with for up to 3 years in elementary school! Therefore, this is obviously something I can't understand.
2. How can I up an estps confidence? Tell them not to care about what other people think?![]()
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Hell, what's the reason for someone's self-confidence to be lowered in the first place? Is his hidden agenda/polr not being fed enough or what?
3. What's the easiest way for you to identify estps? I just want to make sure not to be so leisurely distant with these types.. if I care to.
Thanks. No one has to answer all these questions, individual ones in which you feel you can contribute are fine.


polr?), which pisses me off because we obviously have 5 years of loyalty and friendship in which he seems to have forgotten (weak suggestive
?).
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