How to not scare away Ni types especially women?
I have a question for Ni women on here.
*sighs
Alright, well, I kinda had this situation today, and I am in need of some help. If any of you can do that, I would greatly appreciate it.
The reason why I am posting this in the Beta forum is because this deals with an ENFj in particular. There is this gorgeous ENFj, I feel like I could go into detail about every aspect of this person that I could possibly know of in the two or three hours that I have met her; so now you know where I am coming from :P . So anyway, I finally got around to talking to her a couple of days ago before class started and then I was like “holy asl;iasdlftr she is awesome!” I turned around with a smile (because I couldn’t help it), then our instructor looked at me and called me out saying “what are you laughing at?! Alright, let’s see you laugh when you get your exam!” (ENTp translation: see this guy, he is a loser [this coming from a trusted authority figure). I felt like I was totally screwed with my chances with everyone including her. Afterwards I was so embarrassed that I did not think I could talk to her after class. I think the way she saw me after that was that I did not have control, and that I “acted weird” around her because I was nervous. I wanted to talk to her today, but again I was nervous and I ended up talking to some of my acquaintances instead. I think I weirded her out (A.K.A fucked up, pardon my language). I should be banging my head against the wall right about now. How do you get an :Ni: type to not be weired out? What is this from an :Ni: perspective and how could I change the situation?