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Patrick is somewhat 'not here and now', he longs for far-reaching projects. He is obsessed with many ideas, which he explains so vaguely that only few people can understand him. Kelly, however, does not refuse them at once, but shows interest and if she finds in them something useful, she looks for support of people capable of practical implementation of these ideas. If these ideas, however, seem to her too naive, or if their implementation may be too problematic, Kelly can 'earthen' Patrick's redundant inventive energy, calm him down and distract from 'fighting windmills'. She appreciates Patrick's originality of thought and often shares his passions. In general, she tolerantly attends to this 'eternal child', playing the role of a caring parent. She guides the practical side of their common life.
Patrick is critical towards everything created earlier. He looks for new ways and alternatives. Having analyzed the situation and finding its dubious aspects, he may provoke split in an organization and create his own group of adherents. But lack of tactfulness does not allow him to keep the adherents at his side. However, Kelly is an expert at 'shuttle diplomacy'; she is quite capable of grouping people, softening the ethical mistakes of her dual and finding support of her superiors. She takes care of the comfort, rest and amusement of the party. She can arrange holiday parties. But in everyday chores she is mobile and strives for completion of her undertakings. That is if she is convinced in the perspective of the new undertakings, the suggested solution of complicated and intricate situations. Kelly watches the flow of work and does not let Patrick stop halfway by getting attracted to a new idea. Patrick needs such a stabilizer both in affairs and in relations.
Patrick gets mobilized in critical moments: bravely repulses the enemy, protecting both his own interests and those of others. By doing this he sometimes loses the feeling of necessary limit. Kelly who directs his initiatives watches him. When Patrick loses vital tonus and begins neglect his duties, Kelly 'arranges an emotional episode' for him and by this raises his spirits. But on the other hand, she can extinguish a quarrel by her diplomacy and jokes, before it results in rupture of relations. Her feelings often return Patrick ‘to solid ground’, distracting him from abstractions, making him think about practical tasks as well. Patrick cannot regulate distance in communication; sometimes he is out of place, unceremonious, too credulous towards people, too kind to those who envy him. For this reason he may get into trouble. Kelly saves him from this.
Kelly can take care of the health and comfort of others. Patrick appreciates this trait of his dual very much. He responds to Kelly with reciprocity. He strives to be faithful in their partnership and friendship, which is especially liked by Kelly.
Although Kelly is ostentatiously optimistic, she is very much afraid of the future, as the source of uncertainty. Her dual saves her from such doubts by making forecasts and especially by taking global strategic protective measures. Kelly periodically falls into laziness but her dual does not rebuke her for it, in other words, does not require her to be always highly productive. Kelly likes Patrick's capability of deriving benefit from everything without much effort, of concluding profitable agreements, and she willingly assists his partner in such affairs.
Ingenuousness, impulse of life and feelings represent the 'visiting card' of this dual pair.
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Patrick is decisive and purposeful, brave and full of initiative. He is capable of persevering a long time towards his goal, overcoming any difficulties at his way. He is not always capable of taming his emotions and outbursts of wrath, but can subordinate others to him and make them do what he wants. Kelly lacks such decisiveness; she admires strong people possessing leadership skills. She tries to be useful to them by giving cautionary advice.
Kelly foresees very well the negative outcome of certain actions of Patrick. She watches people's emotional reactions and then suggests to Patrick measures to influence them. Without such advice Patrick may act precipitately. Patrick possesses good organizational skills. He has a talent for planning actions, distributing duties and resources. Patrick at the same time lacks diplomacy. He will manipulate people like inanimate objects, not reckoning with their feelings and interests. Thus he turns people against him but he does not understand why. Kelly softens his authoritarianism, tuning him up to a warmer attitude. She advises to be diplomatic, calms him down, releases Patrick's irritability by jokes and compliments made at the right moment. At the same time she creates the atmosphere of politeness, being aristocratic, 'keeping aloof', regulates distance in communication, as soon as she feels the partner is ready to insult her. In this way Kelly avoids possible confrontation.
Patrick tends to doubt not only the good attitude of others towards him, but also noble motives of others. He rather notices people’s negative traits more than positive ones. Sometimes he is excessively suspicious, afraid of treason, and for this reason tends to surround himself by favorites whom he trusts. Kelly neutralizes Patrick's prejudice by her trustful and kind manner of communication, neutralizing his suspicions by assertions of her loyalty.
Kelly is capable of choosing a moment for sudden decisive actions, which discourages opponents, and this makes her useful to Patrick, who appreciates her original advice. Kelly attracts people and manipulates their feelings and relations. She looks forward and prepares for the future in advance. She finds necessary acquaintances and fulfillers for his projects. Unlike Patrick, she is optimistic and can inspire others with her optimism, especially her dual, who values interests in concrete affairs over all and so expects from others dirty tricks rather than assistance. It is for this reason he loses adherents and falls into depression caused by bad foreboding.
Kelly's shortcoming is her inclination to blame others considering them guilty of her own misfortunes. Patrick easily calms down his dual by threatening to punish the offenders and to restore justice. Sometimes he puts Kelly to shame, teaches her lessons of courage and endurance. Together with such a strong personality Kelly is ready to overcome everything, believing in success. She needs moral support, without which her vital tonus decreases. She needs, too, a support of an authoritative partner, who understands instructions and rules, possesses penetrative skills, realism and practical intelligence.