i was wondering whicht type i am?
Hello everyone, im new in this community.
i was wondering which type i am, because when im feeling low i start to ask myself -'who i am?'. 2 years has passed feeling like that, wonder everthing on me, on people, on details, on emotion and finally i can't express my feelings, getting extremely introverted, desire (at last, wishing) only myself and thinking on myself trying to find my way to feel ok (loneliness). But i know somethings about 16types and their characteristics but i found that all types sounds like me depending on situation i feel. So, starting like with that i try to found some type should be really changeable, really spontaneous but i dont find it.
I will really appreciate your words because i dont know where to start feeling ok with myself.
ps. im going to psychologist but im interested on this site.
ps2. sorry for my english.
ps3. no, im not a bot. =)
Re: i was wondering whicht type i am?
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Originally Posted by normal
Hello everyone, im new in this community.
i was wondering which type i am, because when im feeling low i start to ask myself -'who i am?'. 2 years has passed feeling like that, wonder everthing on me, on people, on details, on emotion and finally i can't express my feelings, getting extremely introverted, desire (at last, wishing) only myself and thinking on myself trying to find my way to feel ok (loneliness). But i know somethings about 16types and their characteristics but i found that all types sounds like me depending on situation i feel. So, starting like with that i try to found some type should be really changeable, really spontaneous but i dont find it.
I will really appreciate your words because i dont know where to start feeling ok with myself.
Not one word here is type related. Normal, you're describing depression and/or other mental health issues. I'm glad to hear you're seeing a psychologist.
I can very much relate to the feeling of not knowing myself and thinking that I was some really "changeable" type because I'd changed so much so many times. This has nothing to do with type though. Making bad decisions when you're depressed and then altering them later, getting into unhealthy relationships when you're depressed and allowing those relationships to have an affect on who you are (or at least how you behave), acting in an out of control manner during times of exasperation... none of that has anything to do with your type.
If you want to type yourself, you have to look at how you felt and behaved when you were at your happiest and healthiest. The answers lie there.
Re: i was wondering whicht type i am?
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Originally Posted by normal
Hello everyone, im new in this community.
i was wondering which type i am, because when im feeling low i start to ask myself -'who i am?'. 2 years has passed feeling like that, wonder everthing on me, on people, on details, on emotion and finally i can't express my feelings, getting extremely introverted, desire (at last, wishing) only myself and thinking on myself trying to find my way to feel ok (loneliness). But i know somethings about 16types and their characteristics but i found that all types sounds like me depending on situation i feel. So, starting like with that i try to found some type should be really changeable, really spontaneous but i dont find it.
I will really appreciate your words because i dont know where to start feeling ok with myself.
Not one word here is type related. Normal, you're describing depression and/or other mental health issues. I'm glad to hear you're seeing a psychologist.
I can very much relate to the feeling of not knowing myself and thinking that I was some really "changeable" type because I'd changed so much so many times. This has nothing to do with type though. Making bad decisions when you're depressed and then altering them later, getting into unhealthy relationships when you're depressed and allowing those relationships to have an affect on who you are (or at least how you behave), acting in an out of control manner during times of exasperation... none of that has anything to do with your type.
If you want to type yourself, you have to look at how you felt and behaved when you were at your happiest and healthiest. The answers lie there.
damn, you're right, but i dont have depression (well, right now), im just so moody. Between a mouth or something im feeling really good, and when a feel good i found this more interesting.
Im not coming here because i have a personality disorder or something, i came 'cause i found really fun this place and explain what happend to me when im feeling low.
^^
thanks for your words.
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Originally Posted by normal
damn, you're right, but i dont have depression (well, right now), im just so moody. Between a mouth or something im feeling really good, and when a feel good i found this more interesting.
Im not coming here because i have a personality disorder or something, i came 'cause and explain what happend to me when im feeling low.
^^
thanks for your words.
Well, I'm not a psychologist so I won't try to make it sound like I'm a professional or that I can diagnose those types of issues or anything like that. Just keep in mind that your lows may not be type related, and that you should type yourself based on how you are when you are healthy and aren't dealing with extreme stress or major changes in your life. (:
Re: i was wondering whicht type i am?
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Originally Posted by normal
Hello everyone, im new in this community.
i was wondering which type i am, because when im feeling low i start to ask myself -'who i am?'. 2 years has passed feeling like that, wonder everthing on me, on people, on details, on emotion and finally i can't express my feelings, getting extremely introverted, desire (at last, wishing) only myself and thinking on myself trying to find my way to feel ok (loneliness). But i know somethings about 16types and their characteristics but i found that all types sounds like me depending on situation i feel. So, starting like with that i try to found some type should be really changeable, really spontaneous but i dont find it.
I will really appreciate your words because i dont know where to start feeling ok with myself.
ps. im going to psychologist but im interested on this site.
ps2. sorry for my english.
ps3. no, im not a bot. =)
Don't worry first of all, everyone feels like that a little time to time, its completely natural and your just in a bad spot in you life. The good news is, you have only room for improvment on this, you've already tasted the bad, and you ready to taste the good.
Umm also while it may be unpopular on this forum, I'd suggest considering that one type won't fit you perfectly, each of these are like suits in a store, and each one wasn't tailored to fit you, it was tailored to fit the masses. So keep in mind when getting typed that its only an imperfect fit, and that truely you are unique.
With that unpopular realization, comes the fact that you may not be able to find the type you are looking for on this forum, you may have to discover your own identity by self-exploration, these types can only aid you in that.
But for the record.... lets get started typing you -- first can I ask you what particular fears you have in life or what things upset or disturb you.... (I am going to start with trying to find your PoLR -- this is explained on the website, PoLR means Place of Least Resistance and your likely to develop a fear of things based loosely around this trait)