Have you ever clashed with someone who should've been a favorable relation socionically?
I used to work for a domineering hilary clinton-esque Se-LSI So/Sp small business owner and I felt like I developed mommy issues just from my 7 months there (whcih probably says a lot about me). It was like having a narcissistic parent that I was constantly disappointing and owed my existence to just because she was providing me with a below market salary with no benefits or overtime pay
Everything from her community board Karen-tier opinions, yelling at delivery guys for standing in front of her (dad's) building for too long, her use of endearing terms to address me only when other people were around, and constant bragging about working 200 hours a week because she runs a dated and inefficient practice and can't keep employees put me off on a visceral level, although I'm sure to many people she just seems like a strong, powerful woman that ought to be admired