What strong/weak valued/subdued IMEs does this behavior point toward?
I'm very conflict avoidant, and often berate myself for not standing up for myself or others. However, when I'm pushed too far I tend to overreact and retaliate both emotionally and when I was younger even physically.
The reasons I think this happens
- The atmosphere of mutual pressure, screaming and violence makes me uncomfortable, both emotionally and physically. This is the reason for my "social chameleon" behavior, as I'm afraid of people turning against me if I disagree. My normal solution to diaagreeing with others is avoiding either them or the problem, and I only voice my opinion if I feel others have really taken it too far.
I also just want to be liked by people.
I also easily get embarrassed/self-conscious if I or others attract the attention of others by doing "stupid" things and I don't break most rules, all for this one reason.
Is this si? fe? fi? social anxiety/a non-typological problem?