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Uncle Ave
Most of the times in situations I've been into, it won't take me long to figure out if spending time on it would yield some kind of benefit. It's why I have been known to leave situations easily (career, interests), but specially when I was younger I have to listen to my family or someone else who would tell me that I should stay in them because there might be some better days ahead and that I'm just pessimistic. My mother is really into this kind of shit, even until now this idea is being pushed on me, but I get it, from an outsider's point of view I seem unstable and unsure of what I want.
Two things that she actually praised me for was that I perfectly timed a career change with this pandemic and I got into a way better position now. I also instructed them how to prepare for this when this wasn't such a big news then. But they didn't listen but it's okay since we didn't die or something.
It's not like a big thing for me, I just see what can most likely happen based on the facts I got. I guess most people do that. I'm not sure what real Ni egos are like but personally these things are just sudden, I don't dwell on the facts to get to the heart of the matter, most of the time my mind is preoccupied with random thoughts, visual flashes, sometimes plans too but not actual predictions or trends. And my decisions and conclusions depend on the current situation, so it changes.
I took tests from socioniks.net, socionics.com and the Talanov one.
Using this definition for Fe (from Wikisocion):
I can see that there is a focus on group compared to one-on-one interaction, and I think I prefer the latter. I prefer talking to just one person, I get dizzy when I have to join a group and "please" them, I have never felt like I belonged to a group ever. There are numerous times when I have to leave group activities because I see them as "useless" (I get it, it's not useless for some people), I always have to stick to one or two people. I always like it when I connect with just one person and have our own private jokes and language. Too bad it rarely happens but it's because of me anyway, since I rarely try to talk to new people. I remember a friend of mine told me that she wanted us to meet our other colleagues and have fun, it was almost offensive to me that she would even propose that idea. If I would choose an extreme end, I would rather prefer a friend who is a bit territorial. Most of the times my mood cannot be changed by the group I'm in, I would rather offend or be scolded than show enthusiasm for something I don't care about. If I know that a situation is emotionally charged (either positively or negatively) I leave.
I also don't give compliments and say random stuff just to liven the mood.
Hm, not sure if I appreciate seeing things in motion. Based on the descriptions of SEEs I don't think I've been close to one either. Not sure if I would appreciate an active lifestyle too, maybe SEEs are too active for me.