IEEs are ruder than SEIs typically, noob. Look at Tallmo vs Aaron Something.
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Si Fe is going to be more stereotypically polite and conservative than Ne Fi on average. I know what you mean, which is why I said “typically”.
I know Tallmo and Aaron are only one example but I think they’re fairly representative. I’ve never seen either of them have their typings questioned substantially by others. Theirs are some of the most stable typings on here IMO wrt others believing their typings, which is why I used them as examples.
Not necessarily. Si and Fe can be pretty bitchy and NeFi can be pretty polite. In fact, I would say that IEE can be pretty insistent on social politeness, while SEIs can be pretty dramatic. But anyone can be bitchy, and anyone can be polite. I myself have known quite a few SEIs who were argumentative.
Yeah, I agree. My ESE grandmother has a tendency to insult people in public. Recently she was talking to someone she knew, and questioned why he was still single: "why, are you gay or something?" Today she mentioned to me on the phone that she was "better than" my mother. I'm not sure that was a joke.
My SEI ex was also very argumentative.
And pretty wrong. There are very few things that I'm certain of, but one thing that I'm certain of is that out of all the Ne/Si types that I could be, LII is at the very bottom of the list. SEI, maybe EII, IEE, maybe even ILE could all be argued for in my case, but LII is thousands of leagues under the sea :lol:
@woofwoofl has used that emoji so much that he pretty much owns it and it's weird to see others using it lol.
Back to typing: I have done some more thinking about @sbbds's type and I feel an increasing certainty about her type being SEI.
I've noticed that you have a tendency to be rather irascible and emotionally labile, far moreso than is normal for any SLE I've ever seen. Pretty much all the SLEs I've known have been fairly emotionally stable and more of a phlegmatic character in one on one interaction. They don't make posts like the one you did above.
I'm not implying any of that as a negative character trait. I'm just saying that your personality resembles what I've known SEIs to be. They are very capable of expressing an ill temper and negative emotionality when they're upset about something, and you seem to do that very effectively.
Wouldn't it be funny and a bit ironic if I turned out to be ESI like you said, but you ended up being SEI? That would almost be poetic.
No because you’re WRONG.
Lol I don’t really care tbh. You’re also telling people I’m a shitty typer meanwhile I’ve rarely seen you be correct in your typing impressions of new members. Lick my asshole.
In all seriousness though I understand where your impressions are coming from. You’re close, but no.
Ok I looked up what I said in the shoutbox, and I did say that I doubt your ability to type people by saying I wasn't sure you were the best, but I can't find an instance of where I said you were a "shitty" typer. So you're putting words in my mouth there.
Also, not just wrong, but WRONG? lol.... And somehow I'm still close? :p
It really is seeming like I belong to delta > alpha
I’m not aware of this either lol. I think one new member in chatbox who didn’t really know me well said I gave SEI vibes off the top of their head because polite. Some other random person said I looked SEI in the members photos thread. But that’s all that I can recall on this website.
Both SEI and SLE are irrational sensing negativist types who value Fe/Ti (I’m sure there are other Reinin similarities too but those are the only ones that come to my mind immediately). Also I’ve been dating an ILE for two years with conscious knowledge of socionics, practicing acting SEI and changing myself for him and also the generally more patriarchal culture I live in. So I don’t think your impressions are that far off. Close but no cigar.
@Aramas You remind me a lot of one of my first boyfriends who I met online in middle school (only one that was online only, and only for a few months mind you... I had one other boyfriend I met online, an EII, but we quickly took it to IRL), who was ESI. Of course then he wasn’t gay like you. He told me things like his dad used to tie him to chairs and hit him then leave him there all day long. He had issues and would randomly lash out at me sometimes so we broke up fairly quickly. Also he lived too far and we had no means to meet in IRL.
Well, you were putting down my typing abilities to others while I wasn’t even there (in spite of your own lacking skills), so you fired the first shot, Mr. Non-Aggressor Master Typist.
Completely ignoring literal content is not a good argument for 4D Si for me. Although, more people comment that I am too literal on here. You completely ignoring the contextual situation and taking issue with that is a pointer towards 4D Si / Ne polr for yourself though.
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@thegreenfaerie EII
Lots of hot takes I see.
Yeah it sounds like he had daddy issues. People with severe parental problems have generalized reactions to them usually. In some way, they treat everyone like they are their parents. Trust issues, control issues, autonomy issues galore. That's why I speculated that types like the Boston strangler probably had mommy issues, just really bad ones.
There's another example out there like the crying serial killer that's pretty freaky. He would do a killing and then call the police crying saying he didn't want to do it but couldn't help himself. On some unconscious level, he was interpreting all the women he killed as his mother and asserting himself against them as a way of evening the score with his mom by proxy.
Enneagram is pretty accurate about defense mechanisms. People will either comply, withdraw, or assert.
But I see you there trying to frame me questioning your type in terms of daddy issues by drawing a connection between me and that guy lol. Or were there other reasons we seemed similar?
I could actually get behind this. I have been compared to ILI characters a couple of times (I think I go ILI’ish when I’m uncomfortable sometimes). Wait, you’re calling me LII? Oh nvm. You still stand behind your typing I see :biggrin:
Well my dad thinks I’m ILI, LII or SEE based on DarkAngelFireWolf69’s descriptions lol. Basically said hell no to SEI and IEE, not that he had a very thorough read. He saw SEE in himself too, which of course, he’s an EIE so. He saw potential in IEI and EII.
I could be EII-Ne I guess. There is a serious problem with 1D Si, but I don’t think I’m quite 4D, 2D or 3D. I will have to go through EII IE’s again, but when I consider it I don’t really see any problems with the IE’s for EII. Maybe slightly with the PoLr, but not really, not anything as bad as having 1D Si lol. Not to mention being more intratim than extratim my whole life. It’s not one of those things where I am that bad at it and in denial at all (Si). I could give a shit if I had 1D Si, I just know that I don’t for some of the reasons stated in my monologue. I’ve always realized it was a problem, but let some people convince me. I just want my damn typing :( I appreciate the LII typing though , maybe you should switch my typing with Aramas’s :) In my car and now I’m going grocery shopping now.
TIM: GAY