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This is interesting, and a bit of a challenge, based on the available information.
I will guess that they are in opposing quadras but adjacent to yours, so they are Gamma and Alpha. They also seem to have very different, even opposing, temperaments - A seems like a Socionics extrovert and B is either a true introvert or at least someone with :Fe: in the superego.
Possibility one - conflict
A - ESFp ,which fits her description
B - INTj , which also fits her description and the "THINK" and "other possibillities" could be like the Gamma :Te: annoyed at the INTj's :Ti: . That would make B Slacker Mom's supervisor however.
Possiblity two - contrary
A - ENTj, one of the outgoing ones - I could see A as that as well
B- INTj
Possibility three - conflict II
A - ESFj
B - INTp
However, this is difficult to reconcile with this:
This suggests that A has a view of B as a narrow-minded person, which suggests A is :Te: and B is :Ti: , or that A has stronger :Ne: than B. It seems also that A has the advantage over B regarding :Se: .Quote:
Originally Posted by Slacker Mom
So, I guess B is INTj and A is either ENTj or ESFp, based on the information available.
She could be my supervisor - we see each other as part of a group so the focus isn't on our relationship.
Mirror pair. ESTj/ISTp or ESFp/ISFj
Perhaps, but it seems to me that they have issues regarding quadra values, besides the temperament - "just THINK" or the accusation of stealing etc. To me it sounds worse than mirror.
it sounds like ESFp/INFj might fit. something like ENFj/INFj might also be possible. it's difficult to determine the actual types from this rather minimal description.
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INFp/ENFj
(it just sounds similar to more petty disagreements ive had with an ENFj)
if not that, mirror sounds probable
That means that A is feeling pressured by B, and has a tendency to blow things out of proportions. She may have forgotten to do a step, or been busy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Slacker Mom
Was the message from B to A distributed to multiple people?Quote:
Friend B says she didn't mean that, but other friends who are close to friend B contacted the grieving friend to find out if a donation was ever made so there must have been some concern that the money didn't get there.
B is kind of checking up on A.
A may have a history of being unreliable, or hiding motives sometimes. It may just be that she's a fan of throwing suprise parties for people, and may be in the name of fun. But sometimes it may go a little far. And sometimes she may not take responsibilites seriously enough. If A understands this about herself, then she may find B as being less intrusive, and understand her intentions are what she says they are. But I'm assuming that there are a few minor issues coming together, as is prone to happen.
Hahaha. That's a delaying technique. A is trying to buy time/space/trust etc ...Quote:
It turns out that Friend B has been having problems with Friend A for some time because whenever Friend B says something is bothering her Friend A tells her to THINK and tells her to consider other possibilities - what else might be going on. Friend B finds this to be
Yeah, it's a little sneaky. A may be able to get B to email her about the things that are bothering her, rather than put A no the spot.Quote:
condescending and dismissive.
*grin* I could see A's behaviour getting annoying too. But B has to put their foot down. Otherwise A will run around like a headless chicken.Quote:
Friend B said she's told Friend A this many times but Friend A told her that she's "sorry if her fee-fees got hurt" and Friend B found the use of the word "fee-fee's" dismissive.
Poor little thing.Quote:
Friend A is very gregarious, outgoing, always wants to be in charge of things (like collecting money or organizing events) and doesn't like to be challenged. She
Does she tie herself into knots?Quote:
is an organizer, and likes to give advice (sometimes forcefully).
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Friend B is very very quiet, very blunt - never even tries to be diplomatic and finds any attempts at diplomacy to be "bullshit". She has a very sarcastic dry sense of humor and a quiet kind of giggly laugh. She always looks like she's not that comfortable wherever she is.
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A may notice this and be playing on B a little. B may find that their relations with A improve slightly if they aren't as dry.
No :)Quote:
I get along pretty well with both of these people, but neither is like a best friend or anything. We just all run in the same circle.
Any ideas what types they are/what kind of relationship this is?
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i think ENFj/INFj is likely.
ENTj/INFp might also be a possibility