Duality: How to overcome T-F differences?
I self-typed myself as IEI in socionics, and I have an SLE friend whom I get along with really well. We have this soulmate-like connection with each other and we can often understand each other easily without any words needed.
but there are times when we would get into T-F clashes. For example, as a logical type, my SLE friend tend to value his intellect highly, but as an ethical type, I tend to value my feelings highly, and being the T type he is, he often likes helping me solve problems and giving me advice about things, but being the F type I am, there are times when some of his advice goes against my feelings about things so I start rejecting those ideas, and he starts taking it personally because he feels that I don’t value his intelligence.
So what are some ways to overcome this T-F gaps between us? I feel like everything between us is perfect so far, it’s only this T-F differences that is driving us apart at the moment.