How each type reacts to a crying friend/partner
SLI: Stop crying! Crying is useless. If you keep crying, I'm going to hang up.
LII: I want frozen yogurt. Let's go get frozen yogurt!
Lately I've cried a lot about my career, and there's not much constructive to say about my career anymore, so my mom and partner, on separate occasions, tried to just get me to stop crying, and the difference in their strategies amused me since it seems to come quite clearly from Te/Fi-valuing vs. Fe-valuing. I got annoyed at my mom (SLI), hung up on her, and kept crying on my own. My partner (LII) was successful in distracting me though. It was key to pretend that he wanted frozen yogurt instead of asking me if I wanted it.
For reference, I'm EII.