Tell me about yourself.
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it?
Doing my masters in engineering,time came for me to decide on something, i was good at math and my uncle studied it so i was like that then. dislike the bulks of information and i have some exam anxiety and i don't like following "methods" or whatever. i like the math and troubleshooting elements.
What are your values, and why?
collaboration and humor , cuz i want to have a good emotional life and deep positive relationships (which i'm lacking) but outside of that unfulfilled need i don't have any universal values or whatever. although i think the universal valueist are also rooted in their experience except they generalize it.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?
vaping sleeping smoking eating working out swimming, comfort or anger outlet.
Describe your relations with family and friends. What do you like and dislike about them?
Mother: like her support and organisation don't like her melodrama and hyper vigilance
Dad: like his sense of humor, don't like his selfishness.
think ill stop here
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?
people who believe in me and i can be myself around.
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?
ostracisation, envy, i don't keep track
How would your friends describe you?
funny ,open, creative, asshole.
What do people generally see as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
creativity and sense of humour
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?
bad people skills, inappropriateness ,unable to filter out bad people and manage my emotions (i repress everything) but it leaks out anyways.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?
practical everyday life is easy, social integration and making friends isn't
What things do you dislike doing? What things do you enjoy more than others?
group activities.
trying new things as in unplanned adventures and new experiences (but not alone).
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them?
don't have any just kinda live day to day.
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?
open a business maybe? i would do things that involve things that excite me (intellectually)
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you?
pontification, and brash comedy (directed at others :D). excessive emotions and mind games.
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores?
i get a guy every week or so to clean it up.
How do you behave around strangers?
pleasantly
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?
break off contact and repress the rage, but endup expressing passive aggressively which comes back and harms me in the end. oh and think of killing them.
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.
about life? or about me? either way nothing comes to mind.
What did you do last Friday?
i honestly don't remember.
What is your biggest accomplishment?
my bachelors degree i guess.
What is something you regret?
mostly not seeing people/ things for what they are despite the clues.
Who do you admire, and why?
My parents and some of my professors. their accomplishments.
What's been on your mind? Has anything been worrying or concerning you? What problems have you encountered lately?
ostracisation and humiliation (bad reputation)
What are your religious or spiritual beliefs and why do you hold them?
i fluctuate between my parents religion and hating religion.
What are your political beliefs, and why? To what extent do you care about politics?
don't care that much although in my darker moods i watch race stuff/ nativist stuff. i think i care about politics in as far as i want to diagnose my loneliness.
Would you ever be interested in starting a business? Why or why not? What role would you play in it? What kind of business would it be?
haven't
What kind of work environment do you prefer? What do you look for in a job?
chill informal measurable collaborative and enough money to be comfortable. and enjoyment based on the aforementioned parameters.
What is or was your favorite school subject and why?
math: easy and makes sense
English: creative
economics: practical.
How do you approach responsibility? What do you tend to expect of others?
i'm not very organised but i think i meet most of my responsibilities.
Where did you go on your most recent vacation? What did you do there? How did you like it and why?
langkawi, jet skiing ,it was alright ,new experience and all. first it was kinda tricky then i just zoned out.
What were you like as a kid? How have you changed since you were a child?
shy and scared. not too much i think. except i act better now but given sufficient contact time i'm that same kid.
What was your high school experience like?
terrible.
Talk about a significant event from your life.
meeting my cousin for the first time and taking a diving course together. i can't try new things easily even though i want to. he helped make diving something i am comfortable with.
Do you like kids? Why or why not?
sure, in baby form. older ones can be loud. if they're not then they're cool you can really let your guard down around them.
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
what school they go to. how adjusted they are. their grades. their extra curricular activities. probably help them find things that would capture them and trouble shoot.
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
all the time. look for people to get me out of it or just do something out of nowhere and not really enjoy it.
How do you see other people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
people from different cultures are different. scarcity and competition (competition is a reaction to scarcity in some sense).
What do you do if you're not getting what you want? What approach do you use?
i am not self aware enough to know all the things i do. one i think is insistence ,others would be looking for alternatives or bargaining it depends on the context really. i think i have a auto mode that i just go on when problems arise. some problems are easier to fix than others though.
Are you comfortable taking leadership roles? In what areas? Why or why not?
not anymore. it's attracts to much attention and challenge.
How often do you get angry? What kinds of things make you angry?
not often, mostly people attacking my character or putting me down.
What is the best thing that happened to you during the past week?
went to some friends house.
What is the worst thing that happened to you during the past week?
too many, i'm in a bad situation at uni that just keeps getting worse.
(the more i touch it the more it breaks)
What is the purpose of life? What do you find personally meaningful in life?
comfort, creativity and self expansion/realization
What is the most interesting place you have been, and why?
Malaysia, people are cool.
How do you dress or manage your appearance?
when i care, i'm the best dressed guy ever. but i don't have a system, lately i've been wearing cargo pants ,a casual shirt and a hat.
Do you like surprises?
things within my understanding can change all they want they won't puzzle me, new paradigms are tough to get into though.
Is there anything else important about you that we should know?
i'm pretty tall.
