First thing I thought was, you should be careful about typing from intertype relations to begin with, then the second thing I thought was - you haven't even had experience in interacting with them, ie you feel [you could] hold a conversation, not that, this has happened, that has happened.
You're just going to have to stick XEI in your signature for now, since you don't appear to be able to make the decision yourself, and also feedback given to you is not giving much of a decision for you either.
Nothing wrong with that, it's all good :)
I've seen a lot of IEIs talk for long periods and it never goes anywhere, SEIs are the ones with the shorter explanations. How much in depth do you need to go when you're not a poetically inclined type trying to give words to things which might possibly exist? Sensing is simpler.
Unless we're talking about an Fe creative trying to make sense of information via the basis of it's structure, and then we're left with Ti mobilizing for both types.
Edit: On second thoughts,
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ucenna, I wonder if you could elaborate on the emotional manipulativeness you spoke about, i'm trying to work out if it's tactical or strategic. The thing is that you could just be being honest, but then, remembering how your first thread - ask me anything seemed like a way to endear yourself to others, but then you have flashes of 'the guard' coming down, it just makes me think that your intuition fails you and you make blunders in that area, which does make me inclined to think SEI over IEI, although, I hate this type of analysis.