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Most ILEs I met weren't really charismatic though, rather nerdy lol. Like Ne doms still almost have something introverted about themselves compared to other extraverts and don'st stick out that much in my experience. :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Chae
Hmmm, not much I can think of other then obvious external privileges like money and good looks. At the moment I feel better off then most other people.
My envy typically is infused with adoration. Somebody cooking this, for instance, gives me that feeling.
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Sure it's simple. But I love it o.O
not failing at everything
Doesnt envy imply that you could have done that too if you only had tried more or worked harder. Its our own unlived life that we are envious of. Not something impossible that we could never have.
Its something that is within our reach and we sortof ask ourselves: why him and not me?
Envy teaches us something about ourselves. Its a projection. Its a hint. Life is in this direction.
People with unlimited energy
So many things
I admire a lot in other people. Confidence, femininity, vulnerability, calmness, charisma, people who are infinitely interesting, eternal optimists who find happiness in the little things, but especially those who aren't afraid to open themselves up to love. Ties into vulnerability but it's a little more than that. Courage. Anyone who knows how to carry a 1on1 conversation without feeling suffocated, bored, or anxious.
Soooo many things...
People who have better sense of style than I do.
People who are better educated than me.
People who have better social skills.
People who seem to be more original.
People who seem to be more artistic.
People who are always natural.
People who are confident.
People who are decisive and driven.
Shh. if they hear you then they'll track me down and force me to join their cultQuote:
Originally Posted by sorrows
(I didn't even notice that, it seems to fit the IEE profile as well)
People who have unconditional love.
People who can immerse themselves in the moment take it in and clear their mind. (I don't mean taking control over it)
Can anyone explain what is it like to not to think in continual tangents? I think my brain is accustomed being in continual hurt stage.
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people who have clarity about what they want & have the power to get it (without undermining others)
people who are charismatic & have excellent persuasive & presentation skills
People who are well-connected, have high status and extensive social circles.
People who are in healthy romantic relationships.
I'm envious with old couples who still manage to look they're in love inspite of years. :)
Like they still do holding hands, etc. Such sweet hihi ♡
I also envy others who can manage to not distract themselves easily and focus on one task and successfully finish it.
People who are good at memorizing and doesn't get sleepy when they're self studying xD
People who are really kind, like whatever the world treats them, they don't change just to fit into this fucked up world. They still do kindness.
People who can cook. Because i cannot. XD
People who can save lots of money xD and manage to create a business for themselves
*these are something like,
..Some of what we actually envy reflects what we actually want for ourselves. XD
It's hard, but everything is possible if you just put your one foot forward and push your other foot FORWARD. Then, we'll move to that certain thing that we want.
It's hard, but hard is what make things great.
It's like, stop thinking (because what withdraw us, is only ourselves.. We entertain lies in our head, telling us we are just small.. But, actually in reality, we're all the same. The difference why some people looks higher is because they think HIGHER.
So basically it's all in the mindset. What you think, you become.
So our thoughts is really dangerous.
So watch out for it.
Try hard to think positively as much as possible.
We have psychology here to determine why people treat us that way.
Seek to understand first because it will save us from troubles.
Lol just sharing my life philosophy. XD
I was once depressed for two years. And just worrying and not doing something about it will limit us from our great potentials that resides within us.
Never give up. Try and never give up. Repeat.
Another thing is,
Never compare yourself to anyone, because if you do, you're insulting yourself.
You're already great. So, unleash it. Make the world see it.
Bad people will judge you no matter what you do. So just do it.
There will always be someone who's better or worse than us, so just compare yourself from your old version... And level up that version. Make yourself better every day.
Stop and quit things that's just making you down. It's hard, but try to think how can you get out of there.
Don't be afraid of change or the unknown. Because if you're not satisfied with what you have right now, then going to the unknown is the best. because you don't have anything else to lose, but going to the unknown will be like, gaining and learning.
People who are valuable to someone.
People who aren't socially awkward and know how to make friends.
People who real, raw, firm, and solid. Grounded and assertive.
Uhh probably envious of people who have no social filter.