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How do you feel about those who criticize and dispute your logical reasoning and arguments, is this irritating? How strongly irritating is it, if so?
It’s annoying when I have an opinion and people ask me to explain how I came to that conclusion, because sometimes I can’t explain that. It’s more embarrassing than irritating.
This sounds like Ti PoLR.
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Do people who are are inefficient, unproductive, and otherwise make questionable actions in regard to efficient action bother you? Why?
*huge sigh* There was a guy at my work that wouldn’t do anything and just make a joke out of everything and come up with excuses for every single thing people told him to do, and when he started doing something he had a VERY short attention span and just went and did something else. This really bothered me, mostly because it was unfair to the rest of us that were working hard. He wouldn’t listen to me our any of the colleagues, so I went and told our boss and he got a good scolding and then I felt better. =)
Serious quadra (esp. Gamma), valued but weaker Te. Merry types tend to not pay attention to if things are "done right" as much. Te PoLR's really dislike when they are corrected on something because it's ineffective. They see no point in it.
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Are your sympathies-antipathies towards people constant? Are you sure of your relation to anything?
No they’re not constant. I can change my opinion on people several times a day depending on how they’re acting.
Situational/Creative/3D Fi.
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How confident are you in your assessment of anything, in regards to your emotional attitude towards them? (likes dislikes, attraction repulsion etc)
Pretty confident.
Good Fi, but strikes me as something once again that's more situational.
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Do you have a tendency to look for likeminded people in terms of your ethical views? Why or why not?
I don’t actively look for them, no. They do make me more interested. I can be friends with anybody as long as they’re not going to judge me for how I feel or constantly try to make me change my opinion.
3D Fi and valuing.
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Can you say that your opinion on any occasion is too often a compromise, and for this reason not really yours? Provide reasoning and/or examples.
No.
Fi valuing
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Can you come up with clever ways to cheer up frustrated friends? Is this easy for you?
I’m bad at being ’supportive’ and saying things like, it’s going to be okay, etc. Because that’s feels so fake to me and I know it doesn’t really make them feel better, so I try to come up with a solution or make them see another perspective on the situation. Or sharing my own experiences.
Fi valuing again. "Coming up with a solution" seems like higher Te than 1D, but applied for the sake of Ethics. That kind of places it at 2D and valued.
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How hard is it for you to make important decisions in your life? Explain?
ugh depends on what kinds. Generally hard because whatever I choose I will always regret it and think the grass is greener on the other side. It’s just how I am as a person.
Sounds like you seek Te and Ni, but too much Te may be unsatisfying since there's a bit more understanding there. Ni would help you see the best course of action/the negative impacts of a decision. Yo certainly would not like Ne/Ti vagueness it seems like.
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Do you lack interest in people who are not internally conflicted? Do you like to dig into those that are? Why or why not?
A person that’s gone through hard experiences in life makes them a more empathetic and understanding person, and yes, interesting. Whoever I’ve been close with (friends or partners) has always had a problem with their parents or one is dead, out of their life etc. I think that’s because my Cancer moon I attract those kinds of people.
Fi valuing, but once again doesn't seem like something you "live" in, hinting at Creative.
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How do you feel when people conflict, destroying the harmony of the external world?
It makes me sad when someone is being put down and insulted, if both parties are not sad and the power levels are balanced then it’s fine, it can be exciting too.
High Fe, but devalued.
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Are you afraid to miss out on possibilities the world has to offer? Why? How much of a concern is this?
Yes, mostly its about wanting to have experiences similar to everyone else so i dont feel like an alien. But also things I’ve always wanted to do and being scared I’m running out of time but just procrastinating. This is not a huge concern I would say. I have one thing I’ve always wanted to do right now, and I think I will be able to do it?
Higher Se, as you see opportunities and know how to take them, but perhaps with some Enneagram 6 hesitance.
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Is it important for you to be like everyone else?
No, I want to be my own person with my own unique qualities. My life has been built around avoiding things that are common or popular or mainstream.
Gamma-ish values. :lol: