Originally Posted by
BulletsAndDoves
It's okay to let things go to your head as long as you remain aware that you are narcissistically fantasizing, and that it's not real. Fantasies are the only thing that gives nerdy males any power, so don't take that away from us. And who really just wants to be some dirty cog with no spirit 24/7? Then you just get used by a narcissist as a tool.
Remain aware of your surroundings as well- but always reach for the stars/that ideal- since people who are the most successful are going to do that anyway, and again- you don't just want to be a pawn in a more powerful person's game.
Follow directions.... no. Authority needs to be challenged sometimes. Not all the time just to be difficult , but enough. Especially if the rule is stupid or unfair or just assholeish and one-sided.