The Importance of the Hidden Agenda (Part II)
What do you like in a person? Is it important and do you not talk about it? What do you mind? Again, do you not talk about it as well? Are you always on the lookout for these traits? My theory is that all of this is connected, and connected through one's hidden agenda. In my case, I love someone silly, attention-grabbing, outgoing, loud, over-the-top. I mind someone dead-serious, tough-minded, mean-spirited. That makes me "LII", as what I like is the least serious (i.e., "Fe") and what I mind is the most serious (i.e., "Se") - and this is a big issue for me that I don't talk about with anyone that I'm always on the lookout for. This all sounds similar to the notion of one's "hidden agenda." If that's the case, what I like could be the "most" Fe and what I dislike could be the "least." In other words, could it be what grabs the "hidden agenda" in a positive way could also hit it in a negative way - and that's what our "vulnerable function" and our "suggestive function" really are? And therefore, the same pattern would apply to everyone? What do you think?