For a start, the group must be offline.
When we meet, we are always doing something creative and stimulating together, like an impromptu music practice, igniting wasps’ nests or breaking up a feminist protest. Then we eat and drink a lot.
The atmosphere is fraternal, playful and enthusiastic with lots of jokes. People in the group are not rigid moralizers, and can entertain any idea without necessarily agreeing with it let alone taking it seriously.
There shall be no “pecking order” or hierarchy within the group, and therefore no committee or official positions. Any member can suggest ideas and schedule events.
The group “moves around” both ideationally (changing topics/perspectives) and physically (changing venues) to ensure that novel experiences continue.
Cockblocking, shit stirring and power plays are forbidden and will result in expulsion from the group. Nobody pits a brother against his brother for selfish reasons.
While women are welcome to participate in some activities (e.g. copulate with us), they cannot become members of the group and influence our maleness.