Originally Posted by
chips and underwear
I'm having a similar dilemma. At least I know my sexta. Enneagram-wise I'm probably 5 with a strong 9 fix. But I there are people who will argue that I'm type 9. When it comes down to it, my greatest fear is of feeling useless and incompetent, and that would fit 5 more than 9, I think. Also, I relate better to the head triad than the gut triad.
I am going to post the questionnaire from the Facebook group here and my responses to it and I'll see what you think. Even though I relate mostly to the E3 description, I feel like I'm more emotionally in tune with myself and others and somewhat more expressive, but still rather restrained. I'm concerned about appropriate emotional expression, and that seems to be common in both E2 and E3.