F questions:
1.) Let’s say someone in your home or work space changes the thermostat. You usually keep it set at 68, and they change it to 75. How do you respond? Rate your stress level at this situation on a scale of 1 to 5, five being most stressed.
I adapt to temperature pretty well, usually there’s worse issues on my mind (not that they are always on my mind). Usually if I say “I’m gonna be okay” then nothing affects me, if I want to enjoy being cold then I will enjoy it. I will take the consequences with pride if there even are consequences. :p Stress level: 1
2.) What do you think about people who seek to acquire wealth and/or own extravagant things? Are you like this?
They are necessary because that’s what I grew up around. People always need to have a reference, if there’s no wealthy people then people will get depressed and lose hope, so shut up about that. It’s good to have outliers. I’m not at all like that really.
3.) Your significant other goes through a period of unemployment during which they are unable to help with household expenses. In this situation, your income in enough to just barely cover expenses, but a lot of sacrifices have to be made, bills aren’t always paid on time, and you’re not always sure if you’ll have enough to get by. How do you respond? Rate your stress level at this situation on a scale of 1 to 5, five being most stressed.
I don’t get stressed when I’m with other people, but at the same time I’ve never had my own household so I wouldn’t know that feeling. Let’s call it a 2.5
4.) Imagine the same scenario as above except you’re the one who’s unemployed while your SO covers expenses. Rate your stress level at this situation on a scale of 1 to 5, five being most stressed. Gimme a 5 pls, dependency sucks. I’d rather suffer not having things than depend on others. That’s like the worst feeling, something I’d try to avoid.
5.) Let’s say you’re having some people over for a meal, and there is a guest who is a fussy eaters and doesn’t like the food that you’re serving.
If this situation is realistic that means that anyone who is over at my house has been cool with me for at least a good 5 months, which means that I would have their interests already taken care of and I wouldn’t be feeding them something they don’t want. Please don’t accuse me of feeding people bad food!
6.) Alright, now let’s say that you’re a guest at a gathering and don’t like the food that’s being served. How do you respond? How stressful/irritating is it on a scale of 1 to 5? Are you a fussy eater just in general?
I’d be more uncomfortable that I don’t understand what anyone is saying since I don’t speak the language. Why don’t they speak the same language? Anyone who speaks english well wouldn’t be eating food I don’t like. Wait I take that back Americans with bad Si eat shitty fake food like cheese crusted chocolate anuses and purple-bruised pancakes, gross artifical stuff. Ok but seriously I think It would be not very stressful. I’m not sure, this question is pretty boring since I don’t know what I’m eating. I’d respond differently if i were eating child testes than say fermented shark fin. But if I don’t like the food I usually just swallow my own vomit with great disgust,... maybe a 3.
7.) Pick which of the following best represents your sexual behavior/approach:
A. I don’t really care a lot if I get off as long as my partner is satisfied. I’m content just knowing they had a good time.
B. I’m confident that I can both enjoy myself and pleasure my partner. We can try different things until we find things that satisfy each of us.
C. I want to enjoy myself, but I worry more about my partner’s pleasure. This is an area of anxiety, so I appreciate a partner that communicates their own satisfaction and also focuses on mine.
D. I’m much more focused on my own enjoyment than my partner’s. As long as they’re satisfied enough to want to do it again next time I’m in the mood, that’s enough.
E questions:
1.) Let’s say you’re having a bad day and just are in a pretty bad mood. How would you feel/respond if one of your friends contacted you because they were having an emotional breakdown and needed to vent or needed emotional support?
It would make me feel better myself, so I’d want them to tell me everything they want.
2.) Alternatively, let’s say you’re having a bad day and are in a really bad mood and a friend contacts you excited by some good news they just got and going on and on about how happy they are. How would you feel/respond?
Whurtever. I probably wouldn’t feel much.
3.) Okay, now let’s say you’re having a bad day and are in a bad mood and a friend tries to talk to you about how you’re feeling and cheer you up. How would you feel/respond?
I’d hate it, I just want it to myself. I can cheer myself up well enough if I want to. But I’d respond neutrally, it wouldn’t make me say anything different.
4.) How would you rate your taste in movies, music, literature, art, etc. compared to that of others? Are your tastes objectively better? How strongly do you feel about this? What if someone criticizes your taste in these things?
I don’t even. Objectively better >W> <W< >W> <W< are you fucking with me. The thing is… “better” can’t even be measured?! Like objective and better make sense in a scientific context where you can say a banana can kill a human better than a lemon thrown at the same speed, but what the fuck is the point to say “this song is 40dB louder than yours” or “this song lasts for 10 hours longer than your song” or “this song has higher frequencies”... do you even know what you are saying?! If someone criticizes my tastes then they do. Sorry I answered this pretty terribly. Ofc btw I think my music is way better than others’. Why wouldn’t I? It’s what provides the best emotions the best thoughts the best memories, it can’t be worse than others’ that provide the worst motions the worst thoughts and the worst memories.
L questions:
1.) How do you feel about logical debates? Is it something you put much time/energy into? Rate your stress level during intense logical debates on a scale of 1 to 5, five being most stressed.
NO! 5!
2.) If you make a statement and someone else says, “No, you’re wrong. This is how it is,” and gives you their opinion as if it’s a fact, how you do you respond? How stressful/irritating is it on a scale of 1 to 5?
I am bad at arguing with confident people who just know everything. The way some people can identify things as true or false or whatever so fast is honestly scary…. It might be a Beta ST thing. Like in video games it’s the same people who say “X person is trolling” “X person is hacking” or is the first person to say that “X person doesn’t know what he’s doing”... and here I’m like, wait where did you see this? Where I don’t see proof or evidence other people see it strongly and with confidence. I just back down because I don’t understand or care that much, let them think what they want. Especially groupthinkers, they are actually some of the worst people in my mind, I can’t stand them and want to go sleep when I see them. If someone is capable of independent thought no matter what type they are superior to every other type who can’t.
3.) Is there such a thing as overthinking? Do you do it? On a scale of 1 to 5, five being most stressed, how stressed out are you when you’re thinking intently about a situation for an extended period of time?
Yes, and yes I do overthink. I don’t usually get stressed overthinking unless it involves my relationship with people. Maybe a 5 in that case. Overthinking however could be overfeeling and overintuiting? I don’t know. Anxiety is irrational, and rarely ever involves thinking logically but rather having multiple images of where something is heading, it’s definitely doesn’t require much thinking. So I dunno. If that counts it’s a 5, if not it’s a.. Still probably a 4.
4.) Which of the following most closely matches your approach?
A.) I’m drawn to people with strong opinions about things. I don’t care to spend tons of time thinking about my own views, so if they tell me something that makes sense to me, I’m inclined to go along with them.
B.) I don’t think anyone can ever really KNOW anything for sure, and I find myself being torn between wanting to tell others that they’re wrong vs. not even being entirely sure I’m right. I know I can be difficult about this, and I appreciate it when someone patiently considers my views and offers their own in a give and take, low pressure exchange. It’s very stressful to me when someone acts like they know everything and doesn’t even consider my points. [Basically what I already said about myself]
C. I enjoy discussing my views about things at great length and considering what others have to say. This is an area of comfort and confidence for me. I’m open to changing my mind if someone makes a good case.
D.) I prefer to consider information and come to my conclusions on my own, and I’m quite confident that I’m able to reach correct conclusions. I don’t mind explaining my opinions to others if they’re interested, but I have little patience for having them picked apart by those who wish to challenge my views. I’m willing to change my mind for myself if new information is discovered, but I this doesn’t happen particularly often.
V questions:
1.) If you’re in a group of people where there’s no clear leader and decisions aren’t being made so nothing is happening, how do you respond? What do you think/feel about the way you responded?
I try to ask questions to clarify what we are doing. If no one knows then I’ll suggest something. It’s not hard at all to control a group when people are attentive to you… getting the attention is the hardest part. Alot of the times I’ll get everyone’s attention, say what needs to be done, but then let myself casually slip back into the role of just another groupie and hope someone else takes control. If not I guess I’ll just be the one appointing roles based on what i feel about their wants and capabilities.
2.) How do you react when someone tells you what to do? Assume it’s someone that you like and trust, and the specific thing that they’re telling you to do doesn’t violate any of your values. How stressful/irritating is it on a scale of 1 to 5?
I usually just say okay and do it. I couldn’t see it being stressful unless I was in a very dark room at 12AM, alone, and my friend came up behind me and whispered in my ear: “Hiii. Please assist me with a task. The Bathroom must be cleaned by 1AM or you will perish.” I’d say this is a 1.
3.) If you’re planning to do something and someone tells you not to, how do you respond? How stressful/irritating is it on a scale of 1 to 5?
I find this very irritating as I find it rude to affect someone’s will before knowing anything about what they want out of something. If they asked what I was thinking before or really just asked ANYTHING, then I would listen wholeheartedly, but I don’t listen to commands that are aggressive rather than curious/worried. So I’d say it’s a 4.
4.) If you say that you’re going to do something, how likely are you to do it on a scale of 1 to 5, five being the most likely? How likely are you to make such commitments?
1…. I never do things I say. I take years to make sense of what I want or need so if I say “I’ll do this” it’s probably out of fear.
5.) If you’re asked to take a leadership position, how do you respond both internally and externally? How stressful is it on a scale of 1 to 5?
I don’t really care initially, well depending on the task. It’s not like I’m the most knowledgeable or quick witted person on the Earth… I can be paralyzed by confusion very easily if I go into something with little information. But if I know what there is to know then… actually I still might be too indecisive. I don’t think I’m a good leader, I’m way too focused on whether things make sense internally (basically the Ji functions of Socionics) rather than executing a goal… I am slow to adapt. So a 4.
6.) How likely are you to make goals? How likely are you to accomplish those goals? How do you feel about others having goals for you?
I don’t like making goals, and when I do they are just placeholders to make everyone comfortable while internally I’m like… maybe there’s something better. When others make goals for me then it feels more justified and I’ll carry it through. Which brings me to this thought: If I don’t understand the why behind a decision then somehow it makes me feel more secure, because when I’m told why most of the time the reasoning others have is very .. poorly thought out and gives me doubts. But trusting people on faith and intuition comes way easier… as well as doubting people on faith and intuition.
General questions:
1.) In which two of the following two areas do you wish people would just stop rushing and take some time to deliberate/appreciate?
A. Coming to conclusions about their opinions on things. [While important, I don’t care usually since it’s not going to affect anyone immediately as much as choice B]
B. Making decisions about what to do. [Gives me anxiety when not done, gives me excitement when done]
C. Getting physical details right. [Wtf. Not really]
D. Experiencing and expressing feelings. [Sure but no… I want people to be people, this is too much to ask for really]
2.) In which of the two above areas do you wish people would just stop belaboring the issue and just git er done already?
A. Coming to conclusions about their opinions on things. [At some point yes, please shut up you’re making my ears tired and I’m starting to get uncomfortable]
B. Making decisions about what to do. [But this is fun…]
C. Getting physical details right. [The thing is, as a comfort oriented individual, I am able to produce comfort through harmony rather than fussing… which is why Socionics Si is pretty weird since people say it’s comfort oriented yet most Si people are fussy and detail oriented whereas that’s what creates DISCOMFORT in me, like I don’t need to know or see everything, gtfo with that shit or it’ll make me anxious. I have low ass standards, and I can make them lower if necessary.]
D. Experiencing and expressing feelings.