Yes, maybe short-term focus, or maybe: the "shallow outer appearance"? Because, for example, there is a lot more to me than the Sanguine's "sunny" outlook. (Like, that I am a Negativist:biggrin:). Also I do not understand that the way they made this chart and descriptions so that the top half looks more negative, and the bottom positive -- because all of the fours temperaments have their ups and downs.
I am with you
completely that being a realist is better than being a pessimist OR an optimist!
I just want to make it clear I never saw you as a pessimist. When it appeared to me that your chart, here in this thread, was saying that "pessimist" stands out strongly in you (and I may well be reading that chart all wrong!), I did not think , "Of course!" but instead, "Oh, really?" Then trying see how that could be, I thought of our debates on religion, and how I could see those you could be seen possibly as pessimist. But I am with you, I would see you as more a person endeavouring to be realist, than pessimist. Also, I consider myself very much to be a person endeavoring to be a realist. :)
I see your point here, and I know you are sincere. Its just that I disagree with how you see that my religion views humanity. I do see how, from the outside looking in, it may appear so. But not from here - inside. Its a wide wide world in here!
I did see that thread and I thought it was a very admirable aim, to embrace a plan to eradicate extreme poverty. And it
should work. But this is where I become a "pessimist" and say its a great plan but unfortunately you need people to implement it, and we are a mixed bunch, and because SOME people will always choose the dark side, and be selfish, ruthless, and lust for money and power, it is unlikely to happen. :( Some say we just need one strong person in charge of the world to MAKE it happen, to force the good thing on people, but, unfortunately, power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. So one seemingly "great" world leader is not the answer.
My brand of realism says that the work of change of the world begins in hearts, and that is where religion comes in...
Actually, I might see more of a Negativist in you (like me) than a pessimist, which is another thing that puts you as a possible ILI in my eyes (but I could have that all wrong - you could be EII). An ILI can appear to be a pessimist because he drily points out how things don't work. But I think its the Negativist in him, that very factually points out the flip side of everything, because he wants to be a realist, and see a thing on the whole.
Another ILI thought for you - your plan to eradicate world poverty is well thought out. It reminds me of a brilliant architecture project done by an ILI friend. It was one of his two Bachelor degrees - I gather ILIs like learning! - and it was a project/idea that had something in common with your idea. It was a model home for the homeless that took in mind all the things a homeless person needs to learn to be self-sufficient. I remember that it was very well thought out, and he had a lot to say that made a lot of sense for why all the parts were the way they were. If I recall, it was designed to be a model for all cities, to sort of eradicate/cure/solve the homeless problem. In a humane way.
So, while I haven't re-typed you for myself - yet - I do begin to notice that I am seeing more and more parallels for you with ILI (like, for example, the traits of a Negativist, like me) and ILI's I know. And I cannot think of times when I saw clear parallels with you and EII, or EII's I know. Just sayin'. Also it would explain the rather cold, calculating review of Maritsa your wrote in a recent thread. You probably would not call it cold, but just "the plain honest facts", as you value facing reality (as I do). I am sure you were not
trying to be hurtful or cold. But T-types can come across as cold and calculating to us F-types sometimes, and for me, that was one of those times.
Also, just looking at that one post: If you were EII, what that post would display between you and Maritsa is the "complete understanding" of Identicals. You would also see
sympathy and
understanding - particularly as you would between two F-type Identicals. That was certainly not there! Instead, you wrote it like an ILI would, who, as her Benefactor, sees his Benefactee as someone
lacking, or sort of
less than himself...
:thinking:
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editing to add: In the above I am referring to your post #28 in this thread:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...-ever-and-last