so/sp connection

so/sp - Lulu Rouge feat. Fanney Osk - Landscape of Love
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEGqfSrHTVE


http://i.imgur.com/rswfMZ1.png

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgevfunW5RM

so/sp

so/sp (with sp/sx)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zGcUoRlhmw

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"Do you want to get ahead in life?

Climb the ladder to personal success?

The secret, master networker Keith Ferrazzi claims, is in reaching out to other people. As Ferrazzi discovered early in life, what distinguishes highly successful people from everyone else is the way they use the power of relationships—so that everyone wins.

In Never Eat Alone, Ferrazzi lays out the specific steps—and inner mindset—he uses to reach out to connect with the thousands of colleagues, friends, and associates on his Rolodex, people he has helped and who have helped him."

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I read this book, it is about SO/SP aspirations and written by an SO/SP.
My Social instinct was naturally drawn to this, though I've found his methods a bit too SP for my taste (the title alone was a bit too SP for me – never eat alone? I don't care about eating alone or not, per se. But I care about being alone or not!) His approach is very methodical and calculated in some ways. I actually think Ferrazzi could be LIE.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnCLiNDx1qU

so/sp - London Grammar 'Nightcall'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OZYw0MQp_fI

http://i.imgur.com/7PPAF5b.png



"coolside / formal" so/sp (LII) - Hamilton Morris, VICE reporter
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wyuFBmlQS_s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV3XLzP4pIw

Brazilian Empire aesthetic:

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...7c60acfde0.jpg

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...2f5e5de9a4.jpg

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...a8f5890ff4.jpg


Edit: Oh yeah, Dom Pedro II himself was xII so/sp

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaoQNDIf6pY&ab
Cool Girl Monologue SO/SP

Oh wait, I'm an so/sp, not so/sx. It describes me very well. It describes me better than any Socionics descriptions. I feel ecstatic... I feel at home. I have found my place, it is my home, I feel.

I NEED social acceptance! I must have it! I need acceptance! I need it I need it I need it I need it I need it I need it I need it ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!

I need to desperately belong to a group. It is a need, not a want. Without it, I will die.

I'm also a big fan of fairness. Things need to be fair! Everybody needs to get along. This world is unjust. Injustice is unacceptable.

I find these things a thing of beauty:

http://www.wnd.com/files/2013/04/senate.jpg

http://www.justthoughtyoushouldknow....ss-spotify.jpg

https://itc2u.files.wordpress.com/20...s-1024x768.jpg

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Originally Posted by Singularity

Oh wait, I'm an so/sp, not so/sx. It describes me very well. It describes me better than any Socionics descriptions. I feel ecstatic... I feel at home. I have found my place, it is my home, I feel.

I NEED social acceptance! I must have it! I need acceptance! I need it I need it I need it I need it I need it I need it I need it ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!

I need to desperately belong to a group. It is a need, not a want. Without it, I will die.

I'm also a big fan of fairness. Things need to be fair! Everybody needs to get along. This world is unjust. Injustice is unacceptable.

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Me too! :hug:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wz7DzheCeuQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8eGCsEQ15L4

Māori warrior haka dance -- so/sp

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rzmhbiKUo0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SNaBQaZTQs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdJFE1sp4Fw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1PEWZg6ToL8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTs_EgutMTY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku7ZaHVZlWo
Affirmation - Savage Garden

I believe the sun should never set upon an argument
I believe we place our happiness in other people's hands
I believe that junk food tastes so good because it's bad for you
I believe your parents did the best job they knew how to do
I believe that beauty magazines promote low self-esteem
I believe I'm loved when I'm completely by myself alone
I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye

I believe you can't control or choose your sexuality
I believe that trust is more important than monogamy
I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul
I believe that family is worth more than money or gold
I believe the struggle for financial freedom is unfair
I believe the only ones who disagree are millionaires

I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye

I believe forgiveness is the key to your unhappiness
I believe that wedded bliss negates the need to be undressed
I believe that God does not endorse TV evangelists
I believe in love surviving death into eternity

I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftjEcrrf7r0
U2 - One

"One"

Is it getting better
Or do you feel the same
Will it make it easier on you now
You got someone to blame
You say...

One love
One life
When it's one need
In the night
One love
We get to share it
Leaves you baby if you
Don't care for it

Did I disappoint you
Or leave a bad taste in your mouth
You act like you never had love
And you want me to go without
Well it's...

Too late
Tonight
To drag the past out into the light
We're one, but we're not the same
We get to
Carry each other
Carry each other
One...

Have you come here for forgiveness
Have you come to raise the dead
Have you come here to play Jesus
To the lepers in your head

Did I ask too much
More than a lot
You gave me nothing
Now it's all I got
We're one
But we're not the same
Well we
Hurt each other
Then we do it again
You say
Love is a temple
Love a higher law
Love is a temple
Love the higher law
You ask me to enter
But then you make me crawl
And I can't be holding on
To what you got
When all you got is hurt

One love
One blood
One life
You got to do what you should
One life
With each other
Sisters
Brothers
One life
But we're not the same
We get to
Carry each other
Carry each other

One...life

One

I've taken the Enneagram test with instinctual variants, I think I'm so/sp, is the similar minds test better?

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Originally Posted by auhin

I've taken the Enneagram test with instinctual variants, I think I'm so/sp, is the similar minds test better?

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The Similarminds instinctual subtypes test actually looks pretty good at first glance, other than the "I like/dislike myself" questions which are just totally unrelated.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mvXeDJ_V38

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ypkv0HeUvTc

468+so/sp=push against social norms and taboos
pushing against social norms is still social


btw, marilyn types himself social 4 too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdTGrgJx32Q

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diU70KshcjA

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Originally Posted by Stellafera

The Similarminds instinctual subtypes test actually looks pretty good at first glance, other than the "I like/dislike myself" questions which are just totally unrelated.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mvXeDJ_V38

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I just took the test, I got So first with Sx and SP tied for second!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouAErQiSD-U

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Originally Posted by lynn

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouAErQiSD-U

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Hmm, what made you think So/Sp? Seems more willingly sensual than I'd expect from the stereotypical Sx-last song.

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IEI So/Sp

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTFXQOxqdC0

Take our positions as the cameras roll
You'll be the guy I'll be the girl
Watching ourselves au cinema
Au cinema

http://i.imgur.com/UVuwYir.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/84Zog81.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/glMSvmE.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/CXsSjB3.jpg

^ sp/so both of them

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fBhad-_zN8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kfnMvo87fQU

for every lonely So/Sp out there

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p21YfobjaVA

https://naturopathicstudent.org/wp-c...-community.png

so/sp - Ed Sheeran Cover by Walk off the Earth 'Shape of You'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YV5KAbV34NU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACpqClTZrTo

"Hollywood Royalty" – such an So/Sp term.
Perfect. :p

Might be way off but she sounded kind of like a so/sp? Rambley, friendly and consinous of general expectation/norm for what she does and feels the need to explain it? Tell me if that's off though...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xb6ugOGkZC0&t=327s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joNzRzZhR2Y

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikiped...Clausewitz.PNG

"War is the continuation of policy by other means." - Carl von Clausewitz (LII? so/sp)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX8bZIlUEOg

Unhealthy So/Sp problems. :lol:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SzaIlHybawg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJGR0_h9s5M

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfW2TydxlWY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YePtnXUzFgg

Was probably written about a So/Sp :lol:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwhYMWJwX5s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wwCgHuVpO8E

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikiped...Cupola_ISS.jpg

https://qph.ec.quoracdn.net/main-qim...8fc26e3d62b9-c

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=raIT_eXT5LY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wixWYMXI9lc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6A8osoL0eg

sx last lol:

"I don't take relationships too seriously, but everyone else seems to. And when you get your heart broken, it's like the end of the world. And I look at it as that was one moment in your life, one chapter. That person helped you grow and figure out what kind of person you want to be with in the future."

"Talking with my friends and family every day helps keep me grounded and connected to home. They are the most important things to me."

- Colbie Caillat

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3vziF8Hc6Uw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXoZLPSw8U8

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"Try"

Put your make up on
Get your nails done
Curl your hair
Run the extra mile
Keep it slim
So they like you. Do they like you?

Get your sexy on
Don't be shy, girl
Take it off
This is what you want, to belong
So they like you. Do you like you?

Get your shopping on,
At the mall,
Max your credit cards
You don't have to choose,
Buy it all
So they like you. Do they like you?

Wait a second,
Why should you care, what they think of you
When you're all alone, by yourself
Do you like you? Do you like you?

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http://d3qi0qp55mx5f5.cloudfront.net...bout/intro.jpg

I love the University of Chicago. I wish I could have gone :(.

So/Sp reaction to So/Sx general Youtube culture

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9yS1muZPW4

Note how the main singer (as the vehicle for the So/Sp perspective) is a lot more subdued than the others in the video

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Originally Posted by vandieu

http://d3qi0qp55mx5f5.cloudfront.net...bout/intro.jpg

I love the University of Chicago. I wish I could have gone :(.

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You sure?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYN9h2zYgIQ

The castle-like picture you shared is really cool though...

(Disclaimer: Not a UChicago student)

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Originally Posted by Singularity

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXoZLPSw8U8

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Could be So/Sx too (the song doesn't have a lot of Sp to me) but yeah, very So-dom.

Pink Floyd's "The Wall" is actually a very so/sp album... and I guess the negative side of so/sp I guess. I guess the sp manifests in being retreated inside of the "wall".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5K9z1AerQw

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Originally Posted by In The Flesh

Are there any queers in the theatre tonight?
Get 'em up against the wall (against the wall)!
There's one in the spotlight, he don't look right to me
Get 'em up against the wall (against the wall)!

That one looks Jewish and that one's a coon
Who let all this riff raff into the room?
There's one smoking a joint and another with spots
If I had my way I'd have all of you shot!

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Originally Posted by Run Like Hell

You better run all day
And run all night
And keep your dirty feelings
Deep inside. And if your
Takin' your girlfriend
Out tonight
You better park the car
Well out of sight

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Originally Posted by Waiting For the Worms

Sitting in a bunker here behind my wall
Waiting for the worms to come
In perfect isolation here behind my wall
Waiting for the worms to come
Waiting to cut out the deadwood
Waiting to clean up the city
Waiting to follow the worms
Waiting to put on a black shirt
Waiting to weed out the weaklings

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I guess this is more "positive" so/sp:

Eternal Life - Jeff Buckley

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Originally Posted by Eternal Life

Racist everyman, what have you done?
Man, you've made a killer of your unborn son...
Crown my fear your king at the point of a gun
All I want to do is love everyone...

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Hmm, I think Jeff Buckley was so/sx, but he could be so/sp

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Originally Posted by Last Goodbyte

This is our last embrace
Must I dream and always see your face
Why can't we overcome this wall
Well, maybe it's just because I didn't know you at all

Did you say 'no, this can't happen to me,'
And did you rush to the phone to call
Was there a voice unkind in the back of your mind
Saying maybe you didn't know him at all
You didn't know him at all, oh, you didn't know

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Originally Posted by Stellafera

Could be So/Sx too (the song doesn't have a lot of Sp to me) but yeah, very So-dom.

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i agree. colbie caillat strikes me as so/sx.

Hm... could Zac Efron be SO/SP?

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Originally Posted by Singularity

Pink Floyd's "The Wall" is actually a very so/sp album... and I guess the negative side of so/sp I guess.

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That whole album is the absolute epitome of So/Sp Type 5

http://i.imgur.com/PlvtXwJ.gif

http://i.imgur.com/R9oL2ga.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/acNakzo.jpg

Stolen from @Subteigh ;p

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYItTxqTc38

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erTLYlgHTn8

6w5

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Social/self-pres


This type appears One-like also, but for different reasons. This time, the social instinct combines with the self-pres to give this subtype a strong desire to know where they fit within the group, with whom they can make strong alliances. Conversely, they can counterphobicaly oppose groups. They are usually political in some form. Adhering to rules is seen as very important to this type. They have issues with authority, such as distrusting reactively or trusting too vehemently. This is the result of their lack of a close connection to people (a function of the undeveloped sexual instinct). Their allegiance is not to individuals but to a group of like-minded others. This subtype could possibly find themselves in jobs such as with the police of firefighting force, and in such professions where it is possible to identify with a group which has clearly defined rules and purposes. On the up side, these are people with a strong moral compass; they can be counted on to do the right thing. They do volunteer work. They become politicians. They are generally solid people. On the down side, their “us against them” thinking can turn into bigotry, paranoia, and “playing the martyr.”

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The Most Sx-Last Party Ever

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7HmzwI67ec

I feel slightly embarrassed for my type right now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCf23ZTFaDM

there we go that can restore the reputation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYPVLuDqiRk
Denzel Washington Explains Fake News (so/sp)

I'm the cordial so/sp

I cannot understand too lol xD

But yeah I'm good in group rather than 1on 1 because 1 on 1 bores the fuck out of me.. And I'm not a good conversationalist either xD so sometimes i don't know what to say xD
Like i prefer activities more than just talking. XD

I'm very independent too.

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Originally Posted by idontgiveaf

I'm the cordial so/sp

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one of us one of us one of us one of us

(Not sure which sub-subtype I am. I think I'm more in the middle and am a pretty conventional So/Sp)

https://www.jisc.ac.uk/sites/default...?itok=11z6dt1v

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Originally Posted by Stellafera

one of us one of us one of us one of us

(Not sure which sub-subtype I am. I think I'm more in the middle and am a pretty conventional So/Sp)

https://www.jisc.ac.uk/sites/default...?itok=11z6dt1v

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I don't know the subtype either xD

Sent from my E5823 using Tapatalk

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Originally Posted by idontgiveaf

I don't know the subtype either xD

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Ohhh okay. There's a theory around where instinctual subtypes are more biased towards one side or the other and the Sp-focused subtype was called cordial, so that's what I thought you were referring to. Well, nevermind then. :doh::lol:

Fe-Ego 6w7 So/Sp (other than me)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2K3tcKrTrOs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3B-hDx8AGg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0Uh9xyWMfc

I was kind of creeped out by how similar some of our mannerisms are.

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Originally Posted by Stellafera

Fe-Ego 6w7 So/Sp (other than me)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2K3tcKrTrOs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3B-hDx8AGg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0Uh9xyWMfc

I was kind of creeped out by how similar some of our mannerisms are.

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I like ann xD

http://i.imgur.com/b8bj2mD.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/KQR2a8z.jpg

https://www.incimages.com/uploaded_f...x900_33941.jpg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_D0wkLyCXE&list=RD8_D0wkLyCXE

Rush is the most So/Sp band ever. Which really just means Rush is the most Ayn-Randish band ever, as if that weren't obvious.

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/...2408964508.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kgzSOGd.jpg

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/7RDt9EghQFw/maxresdefault.jpg
Lee Kuan Yew with Richard Nixon

https://www.theatlantic.com/video/in...in-the-making/

http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin/forum.php

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Originally Posted by Jeremy

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/...2408964508.jpg

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Too late

http://i.imgur.com/209brdm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/o6wNza8.png
ENTP so/sp

http://i.imgur.com/DAfOyKk.jpg

so/sp - The World of Asuras (Titans) - culture warrior, shift by force and principle, the lightning of God
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tual-Stackings

http://i.imgur.com/TZeYm15.png

http://i.imgur.com/NZpD5xG.png
bitchy social firsts making friends

http://i.imgur.com/blJOrPZ.png

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkyCrx4DyMk

the girl in this video and its topic

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL3Trlv2dNs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XN-u3q3wgtA

The rich friends are a parody of So/Sp people, whereas Grant is the regular synflow Sp/So guy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eFTLKWw542g

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrGdEwV-efs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-_JhRJ0tWA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVlT2g__9zE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nj-CarSGo-4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMZIAlKFRY4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pA78TnFvWI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmcKeI9UO3A

http://i.quoteaddicts.com/media/q2/521213.png

Douglas Adams is actually a rather So/Sp writer in general.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxEPV4kolz0

(With 3w2 influence.)

http://i.imgur.com/gYT3fZT.jpg