Help me figure out their instinct stackings - some guesswork to do!
OK, so recently I got interested in Enneagram instincts and to understand how they work better I’d like to ask you to type instincts of a few people I described below. I tried to list the things that might be relevant when trying to discern instincts.
I don’t know their enneagram types (although I have suspicions) so if you feel like typing only one person, all of them, just the main instinct or enneagram – feel free to write anything.
I’d really love if there were instinct typings including two main instincts, cause that’s what I’m mainly trying to understand now. So basically I want to figure out which of these people are sp/so, sx/sp, so/sx, etc. etc.
I’m really curious. Thanks!
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Originally Posted by Person 1
- very concerned with being financially secure
- almost always proper in behaviour due to not trusting people and avoiding being hurt
- low to medium sex drive
- says that often doesn’t realise that wants sex until the partner takes initiative
- pessimistic
- organised and always dressed nicely
- doesn’t like groups and calls one person a close colleague
- pays attention to the body but never undereats
- says that doesn’t like morbidity but says that sometimes compulsively watches real life murder stories and later reports being scared of the neighbours
- doesn’t like action films
- socially indifferent
- loves violin music and says that imagines that the music could be felt in the whole body when playing the violin
- makes sacrifices for financial security
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Originally Posted by Person 2
- medium to high sex drive
- says that is a simple person
- sexually open
- concerned with being financially secure
- optimistic
- doesn’t like morbid art but enjoys watching thrillers involving investigations on medium level of morbidity
- loves action films that are violent but not gory in details
- not concerned with other people’s opinions unless they can harm this person’s interests
- socially open
- has a large group of acquaintances but doesn’t have close friends except for the partner with whom really appreciates the closeness
- friendly towards people
- can spend hours relaxing doing hobbies indoors
- likes acquiring new high quality material goods (mostly due to personal interests but also partly linked with status)
- prone to wearing the same type of clothes
- makes sacrifices for financial security and love
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Originally Posted by Person 3
- medium to high sex drive
- says smn has to smell right
- quickly gets physical
- has trouble with emotional closeness and intimacy, committing
- might secretly wallow in sadness after a break up for a year yet show a smiling face to strangers
- has a large circle of friends but only one person whom calls a best friend
- very concerned with being financially secure
- sexually open
- pays a lot of attention to the body and may periodically undereat to stay in shape
- doesn’t like morbidity in any form whether art or movies
- concerned with other people’s opinions of the self due to wanting to avoid being humiliated
- socially fairly open
- makes sacrifices for financial security
- pays attention to other people’s clothing
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Originally Posted by Person 4
- says that people other than the very closest family could not exist
- doesn’t have friends and says that doesn’t need them
- friendly towards people and has no problem chatting with random strangers
- sometimes seems socially oblivious with the things that says, jokes that makes and is not bothered by other’s perception
- has a hobby strongly related to animals, loves nature and being outdoors
- can spend hours upon hours in solitude and doesn’t feel lonely
- concerned with status and financial stability (talks about money a lot)
- has a high sex drive
- is very independent and prone to taking risks
- when really wants to do something only own opinion matters
- prone to wearing the same type of clothes and buys same clothes in bulk
- optimistic
- says group interaction is draining and wants alone time
- says that is a simple person
- sexually open
- loves action films that are violent but not gory in details
- makes sacrifices for financial security
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Originally Posted by Person 5
- medium to high sex drive
- says that couldn’t live without sex, food and smn to have a discussion with
- pays attention to the body but never undereats
- sexually very open
- says smn has to smell right
- doesn’t like morbid art but loves watching thrillers involving psychological investigations on medium level of morbidity
- loves action films that are violent but not gory in details
- concerned with other people’s opinions of the self due to wanting to avoid being hurt
- socially withdrawn
- doesn’t have many friends but calls two people best friends
- says that prefers to have one or two close people who really know this person rather than a large circle of acquaintances
- makes sacrifices for love and closeness
- says that likes people but doesn’t like spending too much time in large groups
- sometimes harsh sense of humour unaware of people’s reactions
- prone to wearing the same type of clothes
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Originally Posted by Person 6
- medium to high sex drive
- doesn’t like groups and doesn’t usually have more than one person that calls a friend and it doesn’t include family (usually a partner)
- appreciates morbid art and movies
- concerned with being financially secure
- says that couldn’t live life without passion in it
- enjoys playing violent computer games
- not concerned with other people’s opinions unless they can harm this person’s interests
- socially very withdrawn
- makes sacrifices for love and closeness
- sexually very open
- can spend hours upon hours in solitude
- close contact with nature is relaxing
So what are your thoughts?
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