Some kind of something : need your help to type a lonely soul

Hello,

I've been reading you since a while. Now time to come out of the shadow and step into the light.
Please guide me in typing myself. I am a bit confused and would like to get sure where I stand.
I am very into personality development and work a lot with myself as there is always a possibility to progress.

Besides average Internet and books discoveries (read a lot), I already experienced an intense psychoanalysis (Freud), 2 sessions with a psychologist (during several months each) and average weekly conversations with my mother who is actually a family coach and psychotherapist.

Ask me anything.
Thank you for your time and attention.

Since you have been reading for a while, which quadra do you feel you would be most comfortable in?

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Originally Posted by Aylen

Since you have been reading for a while, which quadra do you feel you would be most comfortable in?

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Thank you for dropping by.
Your question is really complicated for me.
When I was younger (like teen and early or mid 20s), I thought I was Beta.
Now that I am in my mid 30s and I am a lot more confident in what I might be, I'd think I'd be some kind of Alpha species (last 3-4 years).
Yes I know, nothing in common.

If I attach a few pictures, would it help?

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

If I attach a few pictures, would it help?

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perhaps

You look similar to Lana Del Rey. :content: I couldn't VI to save my life though. There is a thread about her. Not sure what they typed her. It was probably a lot of different types since I have not seen much consensus in the famous typing threads.. I just recognize similarities in your features..hair.

I like that you captioned one of your pictures "british." so posh.;)
You absolutely do look similiar to Lena del rey and Vera farmiga both introverted Fe types.


I vote IEI.

hellu LostInDreams =} u r a lovely person

what do you think of your self-characterization as a "lonely soul"? do you think positively or negatively of it? is it something you want to shake off or grow into ?
thanks

Ti-LSI.

Take this test to confirm my exceptional VI skills.

Need more pictures of you please.

Thank you so much for your feedback.
I'll reply in an extended way tonight.
And will add extra pictures for Maritsa.

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Originally Posted by Park

Ti-LSI.

Take this test to confirm my exceptional VI skills.

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Lost. I got LII-1Ne (INTj).
Any comments?
PS Actually I do not trust tests.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Any comments?

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The test is flawed.

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Originally Posted by Park

The test is flawed.

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Can you develop please?

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Originally Posted by Aylen

You look similar to Lana Del Rey. :content: I couldn't VI to save my life though. There is a thread about her. Not sure what they typed her. It was probably a lot of different types since I have not seen much consensus in the famous typing threads.. I just recognize similarities in your features..hair.

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There is something oddly sad and mysterious in this lady.. Thank you for your comparison.

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Originally Posted by blackburry

I like that you captioned one of your pictures "british." so posh.;)
You absolutely do look similiar to Lena del rey and Vera farmiga both introverted Fe types.


I vote IEI.

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Thank you. It was in British Museum and there were a lot of people.. just got me stressed out.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Can you develop please?

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It means I'm right.

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Originally Posted by severina

hellu LostInDreams =} u r a lovely person

what do you think of your self-characterization as a "lonely soul"? do you think positively or negatively of it? is it something you want to shake off or grow into ?
thanks

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That was a nice compliment, thank you.

I am a lonely soul as I have always been apart.
I used to think negatively about when I was a teen or in my 20s. I do not click with people easily.
At school, I was a bookwarm. At college, I strived for intellectual exchanges. I am a knowledge gatherer.
Do not even know how to explain. I inspire some kind of intellectual connection with people and it happens almost never.
In romantic relationship, I need that exceptional brain food mixed with unexplained soul connection and physical attraction.
I am perfectionistic in everything I do. Hard with people and even harder with myself.
Now that I am older, I am just aware that I am the only person that will be there for me till the very end. I accept.

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Originally Posted by Park

It means I'm right.

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I am alright with you being right :lol: I hope you are happy about even if I do not see any relevant explanation here.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Lost. I got LII-1Ne (INTj).
Any comments?
PS Actually I do not trust tests.

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If you took the test with the slider...I suggest taking it again and being very mindful of how you adjust the slider. Also check out the dichotomies first because they explain how the questions are being asked. So taking the test without knowing the context of the questions is difficult.

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Originally Posted by Aylen

If you took the test with the slider...I suggest taking it again and being very mindful of how you adjust the slider. Also check out the dichotomies first because they explain how the questions are being asked. So taking the test without knowing the context of the questions are difficult.

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Thanks. I took it as it went, did not think about the slider effect.
Where can I check the dichotomies out please?

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Thanks. I took it as it went, did not think about the slider effect.
Where can I check the dichotomies out please?

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http://www.wikisocion.org/en/index.p...ical_socionics

Please take this with a grain of salt (i.e. in the past ten years, snap judgement typing threads haven't helped nearly as many people as they've confused,) but what comes across most clearly in your photos and words is that you value Ni.

Whether it's Beta Ni or Gamma Ni, only you know for sure :)(If this were Vegas, and someone wanted to make odds -- I'd place my bet on beta INFp, Ni subtype -- with your Genf photos giving me pause... But what a wonderful city!)

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

That was a nice compliment, thank you.

I am a lonely soul as I have always been apart.
I used to think negatively about when I was a teen or in my 20s. I do not click with people easily.
At school, I was a bookwarm. At college, I strived for intellectual exchanges. I am a knowledge gatherer.
Do not even know how to explain. I inspire some kind of intellectual connection with people and it happens almost never.
In romantic relationship, I need that exceptional brain food mixed with unexplained soul connection and physical attraction.
I am perfectionistic in everything I do. Hard with people and even harder with myself.
Now that I am older, I am just aware that I am the only person that will be there for me till the very end. I accept.

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Go easy on yourself, bunny cheeks. Your prince will come... someday. After all, this is a dating site.

Looking at your photos Ni-EIE comes to mind. Park might have been close putting you at beta rational.

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Originally Posted by silke

Looking at your photos Ni-EIE comes to mind. Park might have been close putting you at beta rational.

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So she's my dual, then. Super awesome.

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Originally Posted by JuJu

Please take this with a grain of salt (i.e. in the past ten years, snap judgement typing threads haven't helped nearly as many people as they've confused,) but what comes across most clearly in your photos and words is that you value Ni.

Whether it's Beta Ni or Gamma Ni, only you know for sure :)(If this were Vegas, and someone wanted to make odds -- I'd place my bet on beta INFp, Ni subtype -- with your Genf photos giving me pause... But what a wonderful city!)

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Thank you for your output.
I spent a year in Geneva for my studies, this is indeed a wonderful city. Such a mix of everything. Always happy to get back there.

To go back to the topic, is Ni that obvious? Must be my stare. People often tell me I look through them :oops:
I actually consistently test as INTJ in MBTI.

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Originally Posted by silke

Looking at your photos Ni-EIE comes to mind. Park might have been close putting you at beta rational.

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Thank you. Ni subtype is suggested quite often, interesting.

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Originally Posted by Park

Go easy on yourself, bunny cheeks. Your prince will come... someday. After all, this is a dating site.

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1. I am not here for the dating purpose. How gross.
2. We are not that tight for lovely nicknames. Please hold a bit yourself.
3. I am a big girl and smart just enough to know that there are no princes out there, have quite a bit of boors around me.
4. I strive to do and to be better and thus deserve the best.
5. I am also polite in any situation so I will wish you a nice day.

ISFp

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Originally Posted by Maritsa

ISFp

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Thank you.
I read the corresponding functions description.
Also the type description on sociotype. There are a lot of contradicting things.
I am a very bad hostess and not motherly at all.
I do have a soft and a bit fragile physique. Nevertheless I got a very strong temper.
If I was forced to choose between SiFe and TiSe based on overall descriptions, I'd pick TiSe.

If there ever was an IEI...

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

1. I am not here for the dating purpose. How gross.
2. We are not that tight for lovely nicknames. Please hold a bit yourself.
3. I am a big girl and smart just enough to know that there are no princes out there, have quite a bit of boors around me.
4. I strive to do and to be better and thus deserve the best.
5. I am also polite in any situation so I will wish you a nice day.

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1. The dating comment was an inside joke, a sarcastic statement not meant to be taken seriously.
2. We certainly don't have to be. But fair enough, point taken.
3. That's a personal perspective. No one will deprive you from your gloominess—it's a choice. A choice you'll keep making as long as you let it make you feel better about yourself.
4. I hope you attain what you deserve, then.
5. I would take frankness over politically correct politeness any day, but thank you.

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Originally Posted by Park

1. The dating comment was an inside joke, a sarcastic statement not meant to be taken seriously.
2. We certainly don't have to be. But fair enough, point taken.
3. That's a personal perspective. No one will deprive you from your gloominess—it's a choice. A choice you'll keep making as long as you let it make you feel better about yourself.
4. I hope you attain what you deserve, then.
5. I would take frankness over politically correct politeness any day, but thank you.

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1.Lesson learnt. Internet misinterpretation.
2.Marvellous, it's a good start.
3.Absolutely, it's just that I do not consider myself as gloomy. But again, that's from my personal perspective, I concur.
4.I am OK with being by myself too.
5.We can be frank and polite at the same time, don't you think so?

I actually like our exchanges :biggrin:

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Originally Posted by Aylen

http://www.wikisocion.org/en/index.p...ical_socionics

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Thank you.
I got INTp this time.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

5.We can be frank and polite at the same time, don't you think so?

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Sure.

LostinDreams, I think you may be ILI-Ni. We tend to get a lot of IEIs on this forum, and not sure if people threw you in that type as you're a girl, but you seem to VI like an ILI and seem to come across that way in your writing, typical NT.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

That was a nice compliment, thank you.

I am a lonely soul as I have always been apart.
I used to think negatively about when I was a teen or in my 20s. I do not click with people easily.
At school, I was a bookwarm. At college, I strived for intellectual exchanges. I am a knowledge gatherer.
Do not even know how to explain. I inspire some kind of intellectual connection with people and it happens almost never.
In romantic relationship, I need that exceptional brain food mixed with unexplained soul connection and physical attraction.
I am perfectionistic in everything I do. Hard with people and even harder with myself.
Now that I am older, I am just aware that I am the only person that will be there for me till the very end. I accept.

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This sounds like typical NT-ness, pursuit of intellectual exchanges, etc. You also seem to lack Fe to me. I don't see any emotional expression from you. Things like "That was a nice compliment, thank you." seem very formal to me, seems like Te. I would expect an IEI to be much more expressive and to ideally connect with people more. But your style seems more formal and a bit dryer, more professional in a way, more like ILI.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

To go back to the topic, is Ni that obvious? Must be my stare. People often tell me I look through them :oops:
I actually consistently test as INTJ in MBTI.

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Yes, your eyes seem to radiate Ni, that's why I think you're Ni-subtype ILI. And MBTI and socionics don't share an evenly direct correlation, but a fair amount of people can 'flip' the "J" and "P" in MBTI to find their socionics type. So INTJ in MBTI can become INTp in socionics, or ILI. In this case, I do believe this rule applies to you.

You're very beautiful (and I wish you were in my quadra, not a conflictor), but compare how you VI with some of these other ILIs:

Carrie-Anne Moss:
http://144.142.232.60/frominsidetheb...ne-moss-gi.jpg
http://static.starlook.ru/img/217983...1299474577.jpg
http://www.contactmusic.com/pics/lf/...ll_4088797.jpg
http://1.adelbaew.com/images1/carrie-anne-moss-5.jpg

Lysette Anthony:

http://img1.bdbphotos.com/images/ori...o.jpg?djet1p5k
http://www.edp24.co.uk/polopoly_fs/x...4278460465.jpg
http://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/...4/177384_1.jpg


A young Kristin Scott Thomas: (I believe she is Te-subtype, so she doesn't like as much like you, but still a bit similar)

http://schaumburglibrary.org/movies/...010/09/KST.jpg
http://wpc.556e.edgecastcdn.net/8055...XwBcHF_1_1.jpg
http://www.wikifeet.com/pictures/Kri...Feet-37821.jpg

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Originally Posted by William

LostinDreams, I think you may be ILI-Ni. We tend to get a lot of IEIs on this forum, and not sure if people threw you in that type as you're a girl, but you seem to VI like an ILI and seem to come across that way in your writing, typical NT.



This sounds like typical NT-ness, pursuit of intellectual exchanges, etc. You also seem to lack Fe to me. I don't see any emotional expression from you. Things like "That was a nice compliment, thank you." seem very formal to me, seems like Te. I would expect an IEI to be much more expressive and to ideally connect with people more. But your style seems more formal and a bit dryer, more professional in a way, more like ILI.



Yes, your eyes seem to radiate Ni, that's why I think you're Ni-subtype ILI. And MBTI and socionics don't share an evenly direct correlation, but a fair amount of people can 'flip' the "J" and "P" in MBTI to find their socionics type. So INTJ in MBTI can become INTp in socionics, or ILI. In this case, I do believe this rule applies to you.

You're very beautiful (and I wish you were in my quadra, not a conflictor), but compare how you VI with some of these other ILIs:

Carrie-Anne Moss:
http://144.142.232.60/frominsidetheb...ne-moss-gi.jpg
http://static.starlook.ru/img/217983...1299474577.jpg
http://www.contactmusic.com/pics/lf/...ll_4088797.jpg
http://1.adelbaew.com/images1/carrie-anne-moss-5.jpg

Lysette Anthony:

http://img1.bdbphotos.com/images/ori...o.jpg?djet1p5k
http://www.edp24.co.uk/polopoly_fs/x...4278460465.jpg
http://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/...4/177384_1.jpg


A young Kristin Scott Thomas: (I believe she is Te-subtype, so she doesn't like as much like you, but still a bit similar)

http://schaumburglibrary.org/movies/...010/09/KST.jpg
http://wpc.556e.edgecastcdn.net/8055...XwBcHF_1_1.jpg
http://www.wikifeet.com/pictures/Kri...Feet-37821.jpg

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Hello William,

Thank you for your time and consideration, I really appreciated your post. Also your compliments.
Besides, Kristin Scott Thomas is the essence of elegance in my eyes.

I would say, I do value Fe, though it might not be my naturally preferred form of feelings. Maybe I learnt to use it?
I used to have a lot of all kind of issues with people when I was younger, as very blunt and a bit bossy in my way of taking a position or making decisions. I am rarely wrong in my choices/decisions, but sometimes people realize it later.
I am also extremely analytical in relationships and hate playing games.

Unexpected circomstances do shake me and can make me grow very angry during a couple of seconds but very shortly after I coldly analyze the situation to find the best solution. I hate crying and emotional outbursts of a kind but the irony is that I got a very strong temper... I try to work it out, but it's not easy.
Example: realized I forgot my trainers just before the sports session (I am a champion to forget such things or to loose my keys or my mobile 10 times per day). Extremely upset for a few seconds blaming my poor organization. Then thought that it was not that bad, could do some stuff at home that I never get the time to accomplish. Chilled out, forgot it. But during this first reaction, if people around, please ignore me, I am an explosion of nerves.

Can ILI be of a kind?

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Originally Posted by lifer

If there ever was an IEI...

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Any suggestions for other pics then?
Thanks.

you look like emilia clarke

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Originally Posted by severina

you look like emilia clarke

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That was sweet, thanks, she is a stunning beauty.
Besides, I am quite a bit into GofT.
Waiting for the new season entirely released to enjoy it during a week end long. Exhilarating.

I don't think you are ILI... you have an entirely different vibe. I'd say IEI, SLI are much more likely.

Interesting:
IEI = 3
ILI = 1
SLI = 1
LSI = 1
SEI = 1

A lot of choices :squeeze:=> :eek:
I am open to everything.

This used to be a questionnaire.

I see nothing inconsistent with LSI. Other than that, you're stunning.

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Originally Posted by Park

I see nothing inconsistent with LSI. Other than that, you're stunning.

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Touché.
Other than that, why?

Creating internal harmony is very consistant with :Si: base.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

There is something oddly sad and mysterious in this lady.

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It's just a facade to hide that there is nothing to hide.

Anyway, your photos seem to give off an Ni vibe, I think IEI>ILI, but I don't like going by photos. Can you perhaps post a video? Use that to tell us something (anything) about your work.

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Originally Posted by Maritsa

Creating internal harmony is very consistant with :Si: base.

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I would say that currently and since a couple of years I work more to create the external harmony.
But the definition of the ultimate harmony is the entire equilibrium in my eyes, internal AND external.

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It's just a facade to hide that there is nothing to hide.

Anyway, your photos seem to give off an Ni vibe, I think IEI>ILI, but I don't like going by photos. Can you perhaps post a video? Use that to tell us something (anything) about your work.

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Well, thanks! There was one photograph of you that gave me an SLI vibe, and that's the overall vibe I get from this video.

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Well, thanks! There was one photograph of you that gave me an SLI vibe, and that's the overall vibe I get from this video.

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Thanks. As usual, I will ask why?

PS was readin' this "SLIs commonly engage in personal mechanical projects and do not shy away from the use of their own hands. " and holy Mary, just lol

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Thanks. As usual, I will ask why?

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It's easy to explain, but difficult to do it in a way that will serve as a proper positivist argument. But let me try anyway.

As I said, it's a matter of vibes, and these vibes evoke certain transference effects in me (ask your psychoanalyst about it, most psychoanalysts love this concept of transference). Or in plain English: these vibes remind me of other people in the past, and more specifically, people I have identified as SLIs. In general SLIs trigger (in close interaction) a response in me to start taking care of their emotional well-being, to take away the sorrow of their loneliness, a problem they can't solve on their own. To put it in Socionics terminology: your Mobilizing Function (Fi) triggers my Creative Fi. I have explained this in some of my blogs:

http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...-function.html
http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...-creative.html
http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...n-by-ilis.html

This is as good as it gets. If I were to know you in real life, I would probably be capable of providing a better argument which would be more convincing.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

PS was readin' this "SLIs commonly engage in personal mechanical projects and do not shy away from the use of their own hands. " and holy Mary, just lol

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LOL, but just by itself, not very type related ;-)

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It's easy to explain, but difficult to do it in a way that will serve as a proper positivist argument. But let me try anyway.

As I said, it's a matter of vibes, and these vibes evoke certain transference effects in me (ask your psychoanalyst about it, most psychoanalysts love this concept of transference). Or in plain English: these vibes remind me of other people in the past, and more specifically, people I have identified as SLIs. In general SLIs trigger (in close interaction) a response in me to start taking care of their emotional well-being, to take away the sorrow of their loneliness, a problem they can't solve on their own. To put it in Socionics terminology: your Mobilizing Function (Fi) triggers my Creative Fi. I have explained this in some of my blogs:

http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...-function.html
http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...-creative.html
http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...n-by-ilis.html

This is as good as it gets. If I were to know you in real life, I would probably be capable of providing a better argument which would be more convincing.



LOL, but just by itself, not very type related ;-)

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Interesting.
I know what transference effect is, I studied psychology a bit.
The term of sorrow bothers me a bit... and technically I am OK to be alone.
This is worth digging, thanks for links, will take a look at soon.

There is a huge chance I will get to chat with Meged in the near future. If you are interested, I will post the outcome and we will see if you were right about my vibes :)

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Interesting.
I know what transference effect is, I studied psychology a bit.
The term of sorrow bothers me a bit... and technically I am OK to be alone.
This is worth digging, thanks for links, will take a look at soon.

There is a huge chance I will get to chat with Meged in the near future. If you are interested, I will post the outcome and we will see if you were right about my vibes :)

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I don't know who Meged is, but by all means, keep us updated! Note that you will probably have many sorts of vibes, and that I was probably only talking about the vibes my antenna is tuned to ;-)

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You look Ni/Se-valuing for sure.

I want to say you come across introverted. But then you also seemed sad—or maybe just tired. So you might still be an extrovert.

I'm slightly inclined to T>F. If only because you don't appear to emote much, and because your politeness comes off neutral & overly proper, lacking the nuances of a more 'natural' disposition.

You seem to look down and/or to the left a lot, whatever that might suggest.

ILI, LSI, IEI, ESI, or LIE seem possible.

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Thanks.
I am tired as hell, you are right, and no make up = zombie face, expressions and voice.
Also nothing to emote about and usually am louder than that, especially with people I know.
Videos are definitely not the natural disposition to expect from me, that's for sure... But politeness is prio in any case, just part of my education.

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... But politeness is prio in any case, just part of my education.

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Or is it your Mobilizing Function?? ;-)

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I don't know who Meged is, but by all means, keep us updated! Note that you will probably have many sorts of vibes, and that I was probably only talking about the vibes my antenna is tuned to ;-)

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I am open to everything you know, I won't stop on a type just because I like the description or because it seems cool.
Just need to process a bit of information, I am not very experienced in socionics. Not yet :D
Meged: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...Meged-Ovcharov

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Or is it your Mobilizing Function?? ;-)

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I feel like showing my tongue to you right now meeh :P

IEI is my personal opinion.

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"Didn't put make up, and am underslept."
A bit cruel. :lol:

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Originally Posted by Esaman

"Didn't put make up, and am underslept."
A bit cruel. :lol:

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In the meantime this is true :)
I did have a bit of bitchy comments this morning from my colleagues..
Nothing goes unnoticed and everybody has always something to say.
...must have some kind of an X factor or how to work with men exclusively :P

"I almost died .... once. Yeah." How more factual can one get?

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"I almost died .... once. Yeah." How more factual can one get?

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Those who saw the white light and more than once, are very factual about. I concur.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Those who saw the white light and more than once, are very factual about. I concur.

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I get it, you live dangerously.

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Originally Posted by consentingadult

I get it, you live dangerously.

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Does that mean that the child delivery is equal to living dangerously?
Or falling asleep on a high way is living dangerously too? Or when another car cuts your route when you have priority?

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Shrug. Maybe she's just clumsy and almost dies a lot.

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I am the clumsiest between anyone I know. Yesterday I walked into a wall, I just did not see it, I was in my head.

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Does that mean that the child delivery is equal to living dangerously?
Or falling asleep on a high way is living dangerously too? Or when another car cuts your route when you have priority?

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Yes!

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Yes!

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Then I am living dangerously, despite myself :D

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Then I am living dangerously, despite myself :D

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It's the Human Condition...

People overtype women as Fe and Fi types, and especially pretty women. I think you're a Ti type, personally. But there isn't a ton to go by here so that's only an impression so far. But LII or LSI maybe? If I'm wrong about Ti, then I'd think introverted Te type, so ILI or SLI. I agree with whoever said you seem to value Ni so maybe LSI before LII.

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Originally Posted by LostInDreams

Hello William,

Thank you for your time and consideration, I really appreciated your post. Also your compliments.
Besides, Kristin Scott Thomas is the essence of elegance in my eyes.

I would say, I do value Fe, though it might not be my naturally preferred form of feelings. Maybe I learnt to use it?
I used to have a lot of all kind of issues with people when I was younger, as very blunt and a bit bossy in my way of taking a position or making decisions. I am rarely wrong in my choices/decisions, but sometimes people realize it later.
I am also extremely analytical in relationships and hate playing games.

Unexpected circomstances do shake me and can make me grow very angry during a couple of seconds but very shortly after I coldly analyze the situation to find the best solution. I hate crying and emotional outbursts of a kind but the irony is that I got a very strong temper... I try to work it out, but it's not easy.
Example: realized I forgot my trainers just before the sports session (I am a champion to forget such things or to loose my keys or my mobile 10 times per day). Extremely upset for a few seconds blaming my poor organization. Then thought that it was not that bad, could do some stuff at home that I never get the time to accomplish. Chilled out, forgot it. But during this first reaction, if people around, please ignore me, I am an explosion of nerves.

Can ILI be of a kind?

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Hmm, the more you post, perhaps you could be LII after all. I'm leaning between that and IEI. There's a girl at work that I thought was ILI at first but am starting to think she may be my dual after all. Very shy and not talkative at all, but I can always get her to laugh at one of my stupid jokes.

Anyway, it's possible you may be LII as I see a lot of analysis in your posts, lots of Ti. IEI is still a consideration as you seem to be reflecting more and introspecting, which can seem typically Ni in they way you do it, but I think it's because you're just trying to tell stories and talk about your past so that people know who you are.

I wouldn't consider LSI for you as others have suggested, as I'm not really seeing any Se from you at all. You're not pushing people are exerting authority, but rather that seems like a weakness of yours. Also, an LSI wouldn't lose their phone 10 times in a day and be that out-of-touch with the physical world. I think clues like that clearly point to being intuitive in general.

I actually think ESI after watching the videos... am I the only one?
@blackburry @lungs

Edit: immediately not sure anymore... :( but some kind of sensor.

From her video... I'm leaning towards IxTJ perhaps IXTP...if behaves slightly more relaxed when not on cam.

Definitely logical and probably introverted. I think it's between LSI, ILI and SLI.

I wonder if you could be ESI.

I am going with definite ISFx

Tons of similarities + an uneasy "will never really bond/there's always gonna be friction" kind of feeling usually points towards my quasi-identical. I am also willing to consider Ti-LII here, but I really like the LSI typing the best.

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Originally Posted by William

Hmm, the more you post, perhaps you could be LII after all. I'm leaning between that and IEI. There's a girl at work that I thought was ILI at first but am starting to think she may be my dual after all. Very shy and not talkative at all, but I can always get her to laugh at one of my stupid jokes.

Anyway, it's possible you may be LII as I see a lot of analysis in your posts, lots of Ti. IEI is still a consideration as you seem to be reflecting more and introspecting, which can seem typically Ni in they way you do it, but I think it's because you're just trying to tell stories and talk about your past so that people know who you are.

I wouldn't consider LSI for you as others have suggested, as I'm not really seeing any Se from you at all. You're not pushing people are exerting authority, but rather that seems like a weakness of yours. Also, an LSI wouldn't lose their phone 10 times in a day and be that out-of-touch with the physical world. I think clues like that clearly point to being intuitive in general.

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I forgot my keys tonight while buying some food in a supermarket. I felt so idiot in front of my car, looking for those always disappearing keys.

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I wonder if you could be ESI.

I am going with definite ISFx

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Pardon my French, but I noticed that you have a huge crush for XSFX. Can it be some form of biais?
Me being Fi dom is as much possible as a fish rain.
But thank you.

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People overtype women as Fe and Fi types, and especially pretty women. I think you're a Ti type, personally. But there isn't a ton to go by here so that's only an impression so far. But LII or LSI maybe? If I'm wrong about Ti, then I'd think introverted Te type, so ILI or SLI. I agree with whoever said you seem to value Ni so maybe LSI before LII.

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If that was a hidden compliment, I take, make a nice smile and say thank you.

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Originally Posted by blackburry

From her video... I'm leaning towards IxTJ perhaps IXTP...if behaves slightly more relaxed when not on cam.

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I am blocked as hell in front of cam :D

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Originally Posted by Narc

Definitely logical and probably introverted. I think it's between LSI, ILI and SLI.

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A lot of stuff to consider, thank you.

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Originally Posted by Park

Tons of similarities + an uneasy "will never really bond/there's always gonna be friction" kind of feeling usually points towards my quasi-identical. I am also willing to consider Ti-LII here, but I really like the LSI typing the best.

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I do bond, but very rarely.

Ok I filled the 14 page questionnaire and sent it to Meged. Normally I will have a video typing session with her soon, so I will inform you all about the outcome.
If you are interested, of course ;)

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

I actually think ESI after watching the videos... am I the only one?
@blackburry @lungs

Edit: immediately not sure anymore... :( but some kind of sensor.

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Why? Please develop.

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Ok I filled the 14 page questionnaire and sent it to Meged. Normally I will have a video typing session with her soon, so I will inform you all about the outcome.
If you are interested, of course ;)

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What are the details for this? I wouldn't mind having my subtype figured out by her.

Who is "Meged"... is it another marista with a degree in socionics?....

Meged and Ovcharov seem to be the only Socionists that have really offered any info about subtypes (not counting the DCNH ones, which I'm not really into). I've looked and not found much more than that.

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I forgot my keys tonight while buying some food in a supermarket. I felt so idiot in front of my car, looking for those always disappearing keys.

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Haha. :P I saw you posted a video above. I'll have to try to watch it again another time with audio.

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Who is "Meged"... is it another marista with a degree in socionics?....

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That was a huge LOL, thanks! :D

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Yes.

IIRC, they also post a bunch of astrology/new age goobery on their website.

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I do not mind astrology :hide: She did ask me for my birth data.

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Meged and Ovcharov seem to be the only Socionists that have really offered any info about subtypes (not counting the DCNH ones, which I'm not really into). I've looked and not found much more than that.

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I came to the same conclusion.

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Haha. :P I saw you posted a video above. I'll have to try to watch it again another time with audio.

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There are even 2 videos! I am motivated :P

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What are the details for this? I wouldn't mind having my subtype figured out by her.

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I do not think it's ethical to spread it over the forum... besides it's in Russian.
But it's a mix of free questionnaire that implies developped answers, a bit of yes/no questions and a buch of descriptions to chose between, in different situations.
Really complicated stuff, I needed 2 evenings to complete it. I am used to intellectual reflections and complex concepts do not fear me, though she puzzled me more than once.
I am an enigma even to myself :)

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Is Russian your native language?

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No but I master it quite well. I am very talented in languages.

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I see. So is English your native/primary language?

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Nope, advanced or fluent as you prefer.
When I stay in an exclusively English speaking environment, I pick up quite a lot of British accent very quickly.

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Ah, okay. Because you did come across to me as a non-native speaker, yet I also noticed you had something like a British accent. Which struck me as somewhat of an apparent contradiction—but now it makes sense.

Not implying your English is bad—it's perfectly fine. But I doubt you need reassurance about that.

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What can I say, I am a living contradiction :)

PS and am pretty confident about my English speaking skills, no worries ;)

I am not confident about my English speaking skills

and I do not like astrology :( ah man. I will never know my subtype.

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I am not confident about my English speaking skills

and I do not like astrology :( ah man. I will never know my subtype.

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Shortcuts.
The subtype can be figured out without any birth data.
This was an additional option, I am curious about.
But you will definitely have troubles to figure it all out if you are not confident about your Russian speaking skills :D

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I do bond, but very rarely.

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1. Are you a 6w5 sp/so in the enneagram?
2. Are you asexual?

Hydrogen bonding is better, totally asexual!

But um, I think I got XSI feelings from the way you were able to make steady judgments and articulate them in a forceful (but not overly forceful- just enough) way. You seem like an introvert though, so not Se-leading.

Plus you sort of reminded me a bit of a video I was watching of Charlotte Gainsburg, whom I have as ESI (not sure if it's correct or not, though!)

^ that's the difference between SLIs and LSIs. LSIs are forceful, SLIs are audacious. It's a different form of persistence/belligerence.

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1. Are you a 6w5 sp/so in the enneagram?
2. Are you asexual?

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I am not 6w5, but 1w2.
Am something in between sexual and asexual.

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Hydrogen bonding is better, totally asexual!

But um, I think I got XSI feelings from the way you were able to make steady judgments and articulate them in a forceful (but not overly forceful- just enough) way. You seem like an introvert though, so not Se-leading.

Plus you sort of reminded me a bit of a video I was watching of Charlotte Gainsburg, whom I have as ESI (not sure if it's correct or not, though!)

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Se dom just no, sorry.
Besides I am not the little grey mouse that Charlotte is.

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^ that's the difference between SLIs and LSIs. LSIs are forceful, SLIs are audacious. It's a different form of persistence/belligerence.

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Do not recognize myself here.

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Am something in between sexual and asexual.

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Semi-sexual? What's your favorite semi-sexual position?

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Do not recognize myself here.

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Look in the mirror. That'll do.

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Semi-sexual? What's your favorite semi-sexual position?



Look in the mirror. That'll do.

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Demisexual, google it. I will keep the rest for myself, thank you.

I am different every time I look in the mirror.

Aw. I find Charlotte Gainsburg beautiful! There's something really charming about her...
Different tastes I guess. :?

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Aw. I find Charlotte Gainsburg beautiful! There's something really charming about her...
Different tastes I guess. :?

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She is charming but a bit too shy and skinny in my eyes :)
She is very appreciated by French people by the way. Also a kind of androgynous icon, very popular in homo circles.