Printable View
at first I was wondering why she was on the voice with.. that voice. but i think it works well with her own songs. her lyrics arent that deep, indeed and her songs have the usual mainstream pop beat with a slight twist. but ive learned to like some songs. i like that version of mr potato head i posted, i think the guitar sounds nice :8*Quote:
Originally Posted by Adam Strange
I completely agree that the guitar sounds nice. The guy playing it is handsome, too. But her, I had a really hard time with. Maybe it's because she and I share no types in our tri-type, or alternatively, @inabox might be right about 8's and 4's. I have had really bad luck with e4's in almost all of my relationships. E4 can even take a perfectly attractive ESI and place her outside my grasp.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost
Incidentally, your avatar looks IEE to me. Not remotely IEI. Not even if you are sx/sp. It looks like it was designed to motivate an inert SLI. It actually looks like a very good drawing of an IEE whom I've known for many years. What do you think?
Idk, Rose McGowan is EIE, and I love her, so thats why I have it. I am no extrovert. It does not remind me of IEE or delta though. Just EIE. ^^Quote:
Originally Posted by Adam Strange
your avatar is very Se-Ni, IMO.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost
@Adam Strange, aww; I dated a Te-INTp 8-2-5 sp/so, did not end well to put it mildly, lol, idk it may have been the tritype, I've never even liked Si-ISTps of that enneatype and I highly doubt even Te-ISTps of that enneatype could be likeable; there's something incredibly unlikable about that tritype, up close.
Anywho, what I wanted to tell you was that personalitycafe has a 4 ISFj who has been married to an 8 ENTj for a long time (idk 20 years?); their marriage (from her account) has had ups and downs but yeah, they are still together and it's a till death do us part deal for both. If experience tells you otherwise regarding 4s that's one thing but I think there are can be exceptions; you may meet a 4 ISFj whom you'll want to be with and vice versa :) . Reminds me, I wish I knew 4 ISFjs .
Okay, I checked the video. Haha, all that preoccupation with the perfume, I think he's rather a gut type so/sx, it's not as much visible in his behavior, what is foregrounded, though, is his intellectual bent. He even states that the purpose of the video is to share information, "Q&A". Underlying is the social purpose, he's very much integrated, even knows the name of the perfume, has profiles on the big main social media sites. Pretty much interconnected, reachable. It sais on his YT About page: "New videos every day on life, beauty, and fashion! :)" If you connect beauty with fashion, that's already social sphere, keeping people updated is also social sphere (he's got 1000s of vids, man!). What may have confused you is his emotionally neutral confidence with which he comes through but that could also be just a way of talking to the camera. He may act diff. / less challenging around new people IRL.
Uuhm, that's true. I'm a social type at my heart center but not on my thinking and gut center, hence the struggle. But the reason why so/sx may want to change, perhaps is because they get drowned after a while by the social trash they want to change and immerse themselves in. This tear develops inside of them that hates being dependent, submissive to social ties (unable to let completely go) while still trying to make a change.Quote:
Also I don't understand why someone would want to be sx/sp it's probably the worst stacking, "unfortunate belonging". Want to be involved with people, around people, but suck at it because soc last.
Haha, if you viewed all his videos, then I'd give you a bit more credence on that (we don't know this guy, c'mon!). But then you'd have to be a strongly social type to be even interested in all this peacock sharade he puts on as adopting the current YT self-promotion standard. Oh, yeah, the other INFJ girl I messaged with on PerC also had this peacock thing and she still considered herself Sx/Sp. Secondary Sx enhances their So, making them ultra expressive appealers. Just compare my avatar to yours :DDQuote:
He is sp/so 7w6, done. :) Probably 739.
Sx/So, I beg to differ. The theme is about applealing, a wider social phenomenon. It's not particular, about her own intimate life, it addresses a current issue in the States (and even beyond). And latently self-referential: she also uses body mods which is also a tool for bonding with people, nowadays. Bu-ut, the explicit theme of the song is Sx/Sp.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost
Haha singing about social phenomenon isnt social, neither are body mods (wtf)Quote:
Originally Posted by Neokortex
Why sure it is, coming in front of cameras is even more. The trick is though, how to make it appear that you're criticizing society from outside but still be able to stay inside. That's what Sx/Sos are the best at. Body mods is a strongly spreading trend, it starts out as something private on private parts (revealed only for close friends, with the note that they are "just experimenting, just bought this, not planning more, not gonna be like the others") but then people inevitably get something to display for the public, they start "wearing the cross." It's part of the game of negotiating status and passing responsibility in society. The "introvert fad" what you see on YT, people "embracing their introversion and difference" is also another form of passing responsibility and shifting social status (and for girls- filtering the possible mates). From an So blind spot's view it's ridiculous since going all the trouble to become public and copycating its format is already a sign of trying to fit in. Like I tried to make some vids to disspell the myths but damn, I always forget to upload them, they need to be edited, organized, etc.. I just don't get how all these people find the time and never get bored of the same pompous style based on the rule of ads, big letters, attractive colors, etc.. Youtube pundits, fake people.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost
And one other thing... since when did music turn all to lyrics leaving musical creativity part 3rd, 4th grade priority? Ads supposed to be easily readible, comprehensible, right? Thus music is left on"3 chords and the truth" level to not distract from the text.She did penetration in the lyrics part but she didn't mention all that compromise it took her, all that soul selling to really get that air time. That the only way to "save the world" is to "play the same game like everyone else" - a fact so/sxs probably intuit better, hence attracted to Sx/Sps, wanting that integrity their own.
So criticizing social phenomena while not admitting your part in it is a way of self-mockery, a deceit to make you appear outside when in fact you're inside. It goes against reason why one would imitate oneself, right? Then they're probably imitating someone and are not to be taken responsible for that trait - and tada! Nothing changed for the better but at least you're farther from becoming a fall guy. Otherwise, this song wouldn't be self-ironic
Sx/So again:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xxgRUyzgs0
an Sx/So friend likes this type of pictures : ) he says they represent how he often feels on the insideQuote:
Originally Posted by SisOfNight
That is so true.Quote:
Originally Posted by yeves
Are you saying I posted this picture in the wrong thread...?Quote:
Originally Posted by yeves
do you think so? i noticed a similarity with the type of pics he likesQuote:
Originally Posted by SisOfNight
I'd say Sx/So and Sp/Sx have the same kind of sx more or less, both being contraflow and not Sx blindspot.Quote:
Originally Posted by yeves
So, that is how he might relate to the pics.
borrowing this image for representation of 6/9 sp/sx
Quote:
Originally Posted by Aylen
This grim reaper illustration seemed Sp/Sx to me. All the elements used point to Sp. A certain coziness is created through the light, tree branches, necklaces, the thick and heavy cloak.
This reaper looks like they're on a journey through the darkness because of the lanterns. There is emptiness around so the reaper is alone, just presenting themselves to the viewer (lack of So, the encounter is Sx). The image is intense but not as much as it is grounded. It's centered, the body of the reaper is emphasized. I think it looks beautiful how the artist has arranged the elements, look at the play with symmetry.
Especially the coloring is self-pres, earthy and calm, there is no excitement that So/Sx - the contrary stacking - would carry. Although this is a figure representing death which is usually feared, there's a nice feeling of... home. It's a figure I'd trust in guiding me because of the withered items that display experience (collection of pendants, gown looks ripped aka used for a long time and so on). They don't even have to say a thing, I'd follow without fear because of the Sp-security it emits. The reaper knows what they're doing, something I associate with mature Sp/Sx people who are centered just like that. :love:
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...78ad6c8fa8.jpg
Attachment 8754
Basically this guys whole gallery: http://skirill.deviantart.com/
I tend to think of Sp/Sx as an orientation towards survival in post apocalyptic conditions.
Attachment 8844
Attachment 8845
sp/sx - Tim Hecker Virgins full album (LII/SLI)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cu-ihs4BkAs
Attachment 8888
contrast between sp/sx and sx first. i just realized what a spot on picture this is for comparison
Amy Macdonald
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGwXzrW5mFc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxzGAYkttJ0
The whole movie seems to be an sp/sx against an sx first. :shifty:
http://i1121.photobucket.com/albums/...oad5o1_540.jpg
Pair IV, 2007
by John Stezaker
I feel like I have to retype Sp/Sx now. The other instinct stacking threads are just too down-to-earth and mundane to be interesting to me. I mean, "DEATH AND PLANTS" vs. pictures of socialites, businessmen, politicians, pop stars... If you really prefer those synflow pictures, then :O
thats so sadQuote:
Originally Posted by SisOfNight
actually I think that's more sx last
or what they seem like to us sx firsts.
@Ghost ... but an interesting way to censor a kiss.
thinking this girl is sp/sx 7w6
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BMW_1mOQn0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hs4NqU7ILb8&app=desktopQuote:
Originally Posted by Aylen
...And for more people here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2BULDi00xM&app=desktop
Attachment 9013
Found this on the FB timeline of a Ni-IEI 9-5-3/2 sp/sx whom I'm attracted to. Needless to say, his FB is full of very contraflow shit lol.