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IEE
IEE
IEE
IEE
IEE
I'm serious. All my biggest crushes (and failed relationships!) are IEEs
...is that related to having the same leading function (:Ne: in this case) or it is just that IEEs are so charming?
Where is a SEI when you want one?
Will North Korea cross the border southwards?
Will Batman escape?
SLEs for the most part, but I'm sure there are some exceptions to the rule here.
ive said it before, but ips. all varieties. i can't explain it socionically.
now that i think of it, that's you, jim, and jorge who are all not SLIs but have a thing for IEEs. maybe IEEs are just hotties.
I feel so untouched
and I want you so much
that I just can't resist you
it's not enough to say that I miss you
I feel so untouched
right now need you so much
somehow I can't forget you
I've gone crazy from the moment I met you
SEE & IEI
There is a virtuous cycle to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by lungs
I think IEEs tend to be more 'forward' with regards to their feelings than many other types and aren't shy to taking a risk. Many intellectual males tend to be risk-averse so don't find it comfortable to make the first move particularly in modern relationships where there is a lot of 'downside' risk for the male.
Ultimately however IP men, despite being stubborn and obnoxious are generally as easy to keep as cats and therefore the only failures IEEs tend to make is to quickly and unconvincingly proclaim their 'love' for the man too hastily (has happened a few times) leading to a credibility gap and to create what can be construed as unneccessary difficulties and drama.
This can lead to a 'deflatory' effect on the IP man who will feel drained at dealing with the emotions and therefore won't be making all of the 'right emotional noises' for the IEE female which tends to cause an unvirtuous cycle.
To help to cushion the impact, most IP men have a mean hand for catching flying stilletos and masonry to which most IEE women boycott the game.
I know that ILE men tend to find IEE women thrilling because they re-inforce one anothers natural curiosity, creativity and positivity but apparently the fights can get a bit extreme. An ILE-IEE couple I knew seemed to spend most of their time in fisticuffs.
Yeah seriously! Give me a pet that can take care of itself and that's my soul relationship right there!Quote:
Originally Posted by InvisibleJim
I'd have to say that my biggest crushes were on an IEE, SEE and IEI...
I may be attractive to some people, but then when I tell them about my interests and habits...Quote:
Originally Posted by lungs
Bondage eh?Quote:
Originally Posted by HandiAce
:Fe: dominants, with one exception whose type I am unsure of, though my best guess is :Ni::Fe:. So in essence, my dual, semi-dual, and benefactor.
I assume we're only talking about real-life crushes
Te-ILI 5w6 sp/sx
Ne-ILE 7w6 so/sx
Si-SLI 5w4 sp/sx
Te-SLI 5w6 sx/sp
Si-SLI 9w8 sx/sp
Si-SLI 5w4 sp/sx
what's my type
LSE
ESE
SLI
LSI
SLE
ILI
SEI
:) I crush easily
My biggest crushes are various orchestral compositions. Mainly LSE and EII written.
iei, sei and sle probably.
i crush kinda easily but i have a hard time trusting. the thought of spending the night alone with somebody is still too terrifying. yeah u could say 'you just need some self confidence' but im kinda just terrified of that lvl of intimacy. im not naive i know how dark people can be lmao. and all this therapy talk about how 'you just have to love yourself' makes me think that i really don't need anybody else anyway, although to be honest i often lie in bed lonely and sad. i won't be with anybody who bullies or mistreats me tho just because im a 'soft' big-hearted person' so i kinda feel trapped between a rock and a hard place.
I apologize if this post comes across as victim-y or woobie-ish. http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheWoobie I just feel the need to be honest.
well realistically i have good reasons for this fear. i have had to physically fight men who enjoyed sex with me but didn't want to be gay. they physically attacked me after having sex, which scared me. so now im in an online relationship with a guy who gives me the sexual power to tell him what to do. it's very empowering, as you get tired of feeling like the helpless cute bottom all the time. i really honestly just want another submissive or somebody more submissive than me. feeling like i still have control and not with an abuser is important. and im sick & tired of the sadistic, evil voice in my head that says 'you deserve being treated poorly because you're too soft and kind acting with others.'
so yes, im actually a top: i need power, need somebody to make me feel safe, by following my orders.
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz...73no1_1280.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by truck
bondage and bdsm is becoming extremely trendy apparently...........................
lol. half the teenage girls whose blogs i follow on tumblr call their boyfriends "daddy."
It can't be trendy to me because it never went out of style, it's greater than style to begin with. to me it's pretty ancient, nothing really compares to good animalistic sex and somebody following my orders. it makes me feel like a god. i never really been a sub, it felt awkward for me... i got too assertive, fought back too much. i said 'no' just too often. i almost made this person pass out. i don't want to kill or hurt people but it is like the world's greatest high.
and there's this submissive girl at work who i get along with amazingly well it feels so compatible and stuff. i really wanna help ppl explore this stuff, i kinda always wanted to be a sex therapist lol.
and there's this incredibly hot sub boy i know who i fell in deep love with. i know that he got caught purposefully because he's so sub he wants to be in prison for the rest of his life. i think that's unhealthy tho , he just needs a good caring dom to take care of him. but he wants to be locked up in a cage for eternity like the tortured puppy he is. jesus christ it's too hot, he needs to free himself but only other people can do that for him. wow.
I used to crush on IEIs a lot. Not sure why. The feelings were intense and fleeting.
Three major crushes have been SLE, SLE and LSI.
Other minor crushes have included one SLI, two LSEs, one SLE, and one LSI, from the top of my head.
In about chronological order: SEI, ESI, IEI, EIE, IEI.
This lists contains people who have lingered in my mind for long and/or have had an impact on my dating status.
I usually check the kitchen and the bed first.Quote:
Originally Posted by 1981slater
conflictas ^
what happened with the ESI?
I've crushed on mostly LIEs. one IEI but that was very, very brief. one ILE but that was dumb. one SEI but that was a girl.
one ESI (i think) but from a far.
LIE, ILI, ESI, LSI, EIE, SEE.
I prefer them not to be too soft, apparently.
She was my first girlfriend and took my virginity. It was from a time when I was very insecure.Quote:
Originally Posted by blackburry
Imagine a super nice, compassionate and understanding boyfriend me with a savior complex. I kinda understood that I'm more of a "free spirit" after that relationship.
We don't have anything in common, she's mentally unstable and bitter. I don't hold any grudges towards her, I just mostly ignore her.
Hmmm
I think my biggest crush was ESI
I always seem to have the biggest crushes on my identicals or LSE's. Hmmm
A few IEIs and IEEs in my years. I once crushed on an SLE and then I got to know her and then I stopped. True story. Never seem to crush on ESEs, iunno, either I'm typing others wrong or I just know unattractive ESEs.
An ILI I met in the street when I was 24. She is Harmonizing. She is probably the most beautiful woman I've ever met. Nothing ever happened.
I have a hard time seeing duals as "crushes". Duality is duality, it is different than anything else, and somehow transcends these words we use to describe attraction. IMO.
xIE
xEE-Fi
Minor: A bunch of ExE's.
I've noticed that some of the xxxp (Ip, mainly) crushes I've had have been pretty easy to get over, or it's rather that there wasn't much genuine interest there to begin with.
SLE- 6 years or something
other: XLE, IEE, ILI, LII
women: SLE, LSI, SEI, EII
I had a *huge* friend crush on a EII once.
wow it's hard to type people i no longer am around. I have a few ideas
Grade school crush (1st crush) - SEI maybe, idk
probably my biggest junior high crush - I think SLE actually maybe
high school crush - i have NO idea...
College crush - LIE or LSE, pretty confident on that
Post-college crushes - ?ILI/IEI, SLI, ?LII/LSI
Of these, my favorite recollections are probably the SEI (he's married now, alas... but idk if i would like him in his present form tbh), the LIE/LSE from college, and the SLI.
No crushes in a couple of years...unusual for me.
it really is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nowisthetime
What needs to happen is you get stuck working together with an ESE on something, or needing to get out of a sticky situation together. (or both). Then you see the light.Quote:
Originally Posted by ClownsandEntropy
EIE (passing fancy)
IEE (only remember because I remember admitting it a year later)
EII (sort of like playing "house")
EIE (same one)
ILI (most difficult)
EII E 5 sx/so man - probably the deepest communication I've ever had with a person; brand: "forbidden passion"
LSI sx/sp E5 man - smashing intellectual and physical compatibility; long-term relationship with ups-and-down (and a bit of on-and-offs) that provoked significant changes in both of us
ILE sx/sp E3w2 woman - we didn´t click at all at first; discovered each other after about one year of neutral and casual meetings in groups of common friends; at this point we usually contact each other every 2 years or so, talk intensively for a few weeks, then take a break again.
ESI sx/sp E6/E5 woman - one of my best and longest-term female friends
ESE E2w1 so/sx woman - we were friends; warm and down-to-earth communication, proved to be good for urging me to learn to see other viewpoints and personalities more clearly and tolerantly; friendship ended up nastily after she got married to a SLI who couldn't stand me (interaction got tense and 'tainted', it seemed to me she mainly needed an object to (s)mother and couldn't see the essence of a person)
SLE-Se E7w8 sx/so man - Socionics sucks; it tries to build applicable theory from scratch.
LSI E3 (??) sx/sp or sx/so man - deep and complicated communication; strong impression of structural similarity coupled with different backgrounds and habitual patterns of relating that made things more tense that they could have been
Childhood&teenage crushes:
ESI-Se sx/so guy
SEE sx/so guy
LII E5 sp/sx guy
oops, forgot to give juicy details. edit. ^^^^
I was a late bloomer when it came to crushing and taking boys seriously. Looks alone did nothing for me, because I always had to make sure I knew their character. I wasn't interested in getting involved in some dramatic relationship because I knew the power of the heart, and knew how difficult breakups could be. I was determined to protect myself. If after a couple dates I had a sense that it wouldn't work, I'd withdraw contact as much as possible. There have been only three where values and interests really aligned with mine. In chronological order:
LIE - charming boy with whom I had one of the most memorable dates ever. His humor was simple and almost naive, but hit my funny bone in such a happy way. We were never official, and simple flirtations extended months and distances. The timing was never right, and when it was for me, he had already moved on. For this reason, he feels like the "one that got away", but something never felt complete with him anyways.
SEE - cute & sweet firefighter, could read me like a book, could talk to him for hours (literally), but he and his home and truck were a train wreck, which made me agitated and worried that I'd always be the one cleaning up his mess. I loved that he always made everyone feel included in the group, and while his spontaneity and energy was fun, it was reckless at times. He was also a youngest like me, and I just didn't want to be the sole responsible adult in the relationship. Still, he's the one that I had always wished would work, and the one that lingered longest in my mind.
SLI - my husband. Incredibly handsome and strong, he had just the right amount of intrigue, stability, and loyalty with yet a curiosity for my mischief and fun. Rugged on the exterior, I found he was just a big softie on the inside. Our first date felt like fireworks, but it was beautiful without the fear or risk of being with someone of different values or compatibility. He just felt like my equal, someone who would both give and take, flex with my needs, and take a leadership role while still valuing my insight. We don't always have to talk to know what the other person is thinking, and when we do, it just validates that we knew. Just the other day, I was observing our sides of the bed and it made me laugh to know that I married a man that has no problem tolerating my inconsistent quirks, such as waking up and deciding whether or not I want to make the bed (somedays yes, others no), or how I might randomly decide to spend the day practicing my music instead of something else I had tentatively scheduled. :love: Although I used to think I was the funny one in our marriage, as I've become closer to him, I've come to find out that it's actually him.
IEEs & SEE's, all 7wX, and occassional inexplicable ILI/LII :confused2:.
I love it how you put it. I can relate to this a lot. Although I'm not going to lie that I didn't get crushes on the "pretty" boys, they were just crushes from a distance and withered away as soon as I realised that someone wasn't a kind of person I was looking for.Quote:
Originally Posted by applejacks
Same with withdrawing after a few dates. If I knew it wouldn't be "it", I broke off contact. I didn't want someone to become attached, didn't want to hurt anyone.
I was always looking for "the one". Unfortunately when I thought I found him, he broke my heart terribly.
Luckily some time later I met my husband (again). The difference was we've known each other as colleagues before. Then all of a sudden he grew up into this man I fell in love with. :) Love it how you described your relation. I also love how funny and patient my husband is. :)
I'm so jealous of people who fall in love over time :content:. I never really understood this concept, as I either feel the chemistry right away or it's never ever in a million things going to happen. I tried to force myself into relationships with people thinking I will start loving them after awhile, but it was always a disaster. I either never developed a single loving emotion towards them or I started to irrationally hate them for being so unlovable :DQuote:
Originally Posted by aisa
:) I used to think very similarly and I don't think it's a wrong line of thinking. I'd say it's correct wayyy more often than not. I always thought in terms of "yes" and "no". I also even told my husband a few years earlier that though he's a great guy this would never work. He stayed in my life as a colleague very much on the sidelines of my life (a few chat lines a few times a year without meetings irl).Quote:
Originally Posted by darya
Then when I met him again a few years later, it felt like meeting someone new. He had grown up into a man I felt attracted to - he changed both physically and got more self-confident and just "grown up" mentally, masculine. I met him as a boy before and then later as a man. And I fell in love with the man and I fell head over heels with chemistry and starry-eyes, including feeling ready to get married the next day once I was certain "it's him", lol.
I even questioned myself "why didn't I see him before?". Until I realised later on that the answer was simple - he wasn't the same person before, he wasn't him before (if that makes sense).
There was nothing gradual about it other than the fact we had met before. But this wasn't this process of being close friends and then years later "growing" into falling love.
We both agreed that if we got together the years earlier, this wouldn't have worked.
no, forcing yourself is bound to fail, no matter how lovely the person is and how great you think they are, if there is no chemistry, it won't work.Quote:
I tried to force myself into relationships with people thinking I will start loving them after awhile, but it was always a disaster. I either never developed a single loving emotion towards them or I started to irrationally hate them for being so unlovable :D
We don't date just the personality or just the looks, we date a whole human being (I'm sorry I don't mean to sound condescending, I'm sure you know this, but I just don't know how else to word what I am trying to say...). And sometimes a guy can be both handsome and nice, but if there's no spark, then that's it end of story. At least that's my take on this. Wishing to fall in love with someone is just going to hurt this someone in the long run and make you unhappy.
Unless someone believes in arranged marriages and such, but I think it's safe to say that majority of people prefer to live a different way. ;)
Probably mostly SLIs and SEIs, but there have been LSEs and SLEs as well. One LIE I ended up dating for a long time but that ended up horrible. And one IEI.
IEI, ILI and SLE mostly when I think back. IEI because there is more of a flow between us... easiest to understand, usually, and we can play off each other so it is fun but can also get unhealthy if they are E4. Chemistry is the most important thing though so I am sure I had crushes on other types but have not read enough about the other types to stereotype them. :shrug: I had a relationship with a possible EIE but he was always competing with me for attention and he was jealous of any attention I got.
EII Fi
@aisa
Oh, that's a totally different story then with you and your husband. It sounds really cute btw :p Sure, people can change a lot (for better or worse) and they usually gain confidence with age, so I completely understand how you can get attracted to someone you previously weren't. But I swear I know lots of people who start dating someone and say "He's nothing special, I'm not really in love, but he's a nice person and we will see what happens" and then boom, after 4 months they're crazily in love :shock: That's the phenomenom I find totaly alien :) Trust me, I'm waiting for the day I become more mature and rational when it comes to love matters, but I somehow feel like it's getting worse with age hehe. I know what I want and I'm not settling for anything less :whistle:(butt heads her cat a and curls into fetus position :D)
Sooo weird. Although, it did happen to me once too but we were not really a good match and I came to regret it. :) Since then though, I've gone into my mindset of "INSTANT SPARK OR BUST." It's actually turned some people off when I talked about it, like a friend once semi-snapped at me "not everyone you date has to be a great love." I do think I've gotten even more picky with age, since I've learned better what I like (and I want to have *exactly* what I like...)Quote:
Originally Posted by darya
:( :( :( but it's not practical and I'm also trying to become more pratical!!! *curls into fetal position, wishes for cat*
Tangent: Weirds me out too when people try to "talk their partner through" staying with them by listing practical reasons to stay together, how every relationship has bad spots but devotion is real and relationships will shift with time, etc, when it's sort of clear that their relationship lacks chemistry as a glue. I try again not to talk about this usually because I can definitely understand the other perspective too. But still it makes me feel weird- like "that's cool for you but it's scary when you talk like your partner/everyone reasonable should feel the same way too!!"
Yeeees, some people actually have lists of what they want in their partner and they make for and against columns :shock: Anyway, I'm rather single than in a relationship like that. My LSE friend started dating a guy (LII) for the first time (she's 27 and was a virgin before - and she's not even religious) and she said to me that she had to "learn intimacy" and that she "grew to accept him into his heart after a four months period and now she's really in love". I was looking at her like an alien :lol: But she's sp/so, so that probably explains this. She always gave me an asexual vibe and now their dynamic looks more like mother/son and shifts to bff from time to time. I just sit back and watch in awe:thinking: Even when they were in a process of getting to know each other and "seducing" one another, she talked to him exactly like she does to me. It's like she doesn't know the concept of flirting or seduction - she talks to men the same as women. She also has like 0% sex appeal (and I never say that about anyone) , but LII (who's ironically very good looking and hot) is totally, and I mean head over heels with her. Now I sound like a jealous bitch, which I probably am :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by lemontrees
P.S. I can rent you my cat for free, he's a total dick anyway.
Me too! I withdraw immediately if I don't think it can be "it" because I think even without something being "it" the emotional ties that can develop can be painful to break from for both parties (plus I can't invest emotionally if I don't think something could be "it"- I feel like the other person would always be able to tell.) I agree with a lot of the other stuff you've said in this thread as well, it was calming to read. :D Phew. I'm not crazy haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by aisa
yeah, I mean, don't get me wrong, we met more than once on various occasions (mostly with some friends) before I figured he was getting too interested and told him it wouldn't workQuote:
Originally Posted by darya
But I swear I know lots of people who start dating someone and say "He's nothing special, I'm not really in love, but he's a nice person and we will see what happens" and then boom, after 4 months they're crazily in love :shock: That's the phenomenom I find totaly alien :)
Recently I met one couple who seem happy who started out as friends with benefits (or just benefits tbh, cause they didn't know each other well enough to be called friends, lol) and then they actually did fall in love. But obviously for a scenario like this the so called "chemistry" was already present there.
:hug:and one more for @lemontrees :hug:love's tricky... I'll keep my fingers crossed for you girls. :)Quote:
Trust me, I'm waiting for the day I become more mature and rational when it comes to love matters, but I somehow feel like it's getting worse with age hehe. I know what I want and I'm not settling for anything less :whistle:(butt heads her cat a and curls into fetus position :D)
LMAO.Quote:
Originally Posted by darya
Yeah, I've had same convos with some sx-last friends and it's language like "I think love is something you try to take a leap of faith to commit to developing and once you allow it, it grows over time."
And I don't think that's *entirely* wrong or untrue, and I believe that they come to love and become attached deeply (in a different way) but I want to feel head-over-heels for a bit and then have it even out into a consistent spark when it "inevitably evens out or whatever " I guess. :) (Although I'm secretly hoping that this doesn't have to happen.) OMG I have this E6 so/sp ILE friend, she's gay but she's DATING A GUY b/c they have similar interests and "a connection." And I don't think she's discovered a new part of her sexuality either! That was soooo crazy to me. :shock: I was worried about it but I hope it works out... Weirdly, I think it's difficult for people like this too (unless they meet someone who feels the exact same way) b/c eventually the other person might feel a lack of something and want to move on, and that person doesn't understand what happened and is heartbroken. I have seen this play out too.
:love: :D :love:Quote:
P.S. I can rent you my cat for free, he's a total dick anyway.
thanks babe <3 I wish you all the best with your husband, you two sound like something I've always hoped for;)Quote:
Originally Posted by aisa
Omg, I know the feeling of kissing an octopus hahaha, it actually sent shivers down my spine :) I agree, there has to be some foundation of chemistry and attraction and than it grows from there. But I was always more of a person of all or nothing - either nada or it hits me in the head like a ton of bricks and I can't eat and sleep for a week and walk around like:hyper:.
@lemontrees
Yeah, for sx last people it's really hard to get into relationships I think (I'm pulling this out of my ass haha, but my friend for example never had any suitors, because she just doesn't give off any kind off sexual vibe). But when they do get into a relationship and if it's with someone similar, than I think it's much easier to maintain it, because they don't seem to need a lot of emotional intensity and passion.
This LSE and LII are so entartaining to watch though. Food has a very important place in their relationship. So everytime before he comes over she buys 5 different sorts of youghurts, 3 different breads, 5 juices etc. Our kitchen turns into an all inclusive resort over night:content: And then they have this ridiculously long feeding rituals which go something like this:
LSE: Look, they had a new limited edition of your favourite brand of yoghurts in the store. So now you can choose between Mango, Strawberry, Wild forests fruits and Cinnamon. You can either choose one of them or just take a sip of each.
LII: Mmmm, great, I think I will have Mango this time. Although I don't like it that much as a fruit, maybe I will like the taste of it in yoghurt. I'm feeling adventorous today (Ok, the last thing was only a sarcastic remark in my head :D).
LSE: Are you sure you wouldn't rather try Cinnamon? You've always liked cinnamon.
LII: Hmmm...no, I'm still pretty sure I'll go with Mango.. Do you think they use real mango or just an essence of it?
LSE: I'm sure it's just an essence. I've told you before, you should only eat non-sugary yoghurts. And more vegetables, baby--boo. Your diet is just terrible. (shakes head)
LII: (rolles his eyes his head like a little rebelious child that gets scorned off by mommy). : But I hate vegetables. (He still hasn't tried the yoghurt).
Meanwhile, I'm silently cooking myself pasta with ketchup the third day in a row, as that are the only two ingredients left in my fridge, thinking to myself : Just swallow the fucking youghurt already!!! :hide:
But otherwise they're great for each other. LSE genuinely really cares about him, she's just not really good with loving words. Her love is measured in yoghurts :) But I was really shocked when last time she told me out of the blue : "You know Darya, I really love LII, but I was thinking if he became disabled I would have to leave him." And the guy is 25 and healthy as a fish :lol: It's really difficult for me to understand this kind of cold rationality, before anything bad even happens.:shifty:
Oh, about the cat, just send me your address:D. I have to warn you though, I like my cats as I do my men - with a sprinkle of douche. If he wasn't so aesthetically pleasing, he would be a stray cat long ago :D.
oh the delightful times... ;) yeah, the starry-eyed phase is great :)Quote:
Originally Posted by darya
oh... you've just made me realise the elderly LSE female I know must be sx last. This explains a lot. XD and yeah the ultra rational approach sounds familiar with regard to her, too. :yup:
the above made me seriously lol XDQuote:
LII: Mmmm, great, I think I will have Mango this time. Although I don't like it that much as a fruit, maybe I will like the taste of it in yoghurt. I'm feeling adventorous today (Ok, the last thing was only a sarcastic remark in my head :D).
lmao to this XDQuote:
I like my cats as I do my men - with a sprinkle of douche. If he wasn't so aesthetically pleasing, he would be a stray cat long ago :D.
Aisa lol, I use kitty/puppy look for everything from getting to work half an hour late to getting others to carry my shopping bags to helping me with paperwork . It's not my fault though, my sp is rediculously low :P And besides, they always get a charming smile in return :oops:Quote:
Originally Posted by aisa
@darya
Your story about your friend really had me almost literally rolling on the floor laughing. :) :) :)
The yoghurt part... but also the part where she was scared of him being disabled down the line was just like :shock: I could definitely see how an idea like that could occur, and how it could be genuinely confusing/ scary to deal with those thoughts, but it's still like a mix of LOL and :doh: Hopefully he'll be fine physically- most of the more realistic problems seem like they would be something like they might suffer emotional setbacks or he will leave her, rather than freak accident leaving him disabled...
And lol to being *extreeemely* sp-last. I am extreeemeely sp-last... last week I was trying to install an AC unit and it fell out my fucking window (the thought process was "I will install this without it falling out my window b/c I am pretty great!!!!") and I CAUGHT IT BY ITS CORD and was standing there being all superhuman in my head trying to TUG IT BACK IN when eventually it did occur to me that maybe if I kept on going I might accidentally *fall out the window*- at this point I tied it by its cord to a table leg and grabbed my neighbor, whom I'd never met before, to help me haul it out in the middle of the night. He didn't speak english too well and looked older and lonely and thought it was possibly some sort of strange sexual advance (as I led him into my place...) :thinking: But then I pointed to the AC hanging from my window...
Last week I tried to make it to a friend's bday party but my phone died and I got lost, and I misread the directions on a stranger's phone, and I ended up walking around some unknown part of the city for like 2 hours instead... it was kind of an adventure though. :) But I felt bad for not making it :( :( :(
I cannot remember the last time I went to the airport without accidentally a) going at the wrong time b) going to the wrong airport c) doing both those things two days in a row...
(one of those things just happened to me this morning lol)
^ Must. Change. My. Life. *bashes head against imaginary cat repeatedly as I wait for your semi-douchey but very beautiful and alluring cat to arrive in the mail* :love: :love: