We started dating in 1989, so I'm hoping it will work out with my boyfriend
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Originally Posted by
Iris
I think there are interesting, fun and useful things that can come out of all relationships. So it is worth trying if you like each other. Just try to avoid doing things together where there is potential to piss each other off. Make sure to maximize the things you enjoy doing together. It helps if you share the same spiritual, political values, etc. If you have kids, try to get on the same page about how you handle their issues, because raising kids brings plenty of opportunity to disagree. Socionics can help you understand the reason you are having trouble communicating or working together, but how you choose to behave is up to you. If you decide the relationship is worth it, then go forward with it and know that some relationships are going to require more work and more forgiveness.
We definitely like each other.
Iris that is good advice. (Still trying to figure out the arguing thing 20+ years later). But avoiding situations where we could piss each other off? We live together! Just kidding, it probably is more me than him (he tells me) but actually is more him than me, he just doesn't see that. That sentence doesn't make sense, which is perfect for our kind of debate. We are exact in beliefs on raising our kids, politics, rational thinking, green world, but disagree when I am doing things he doesn't get then I get mad at him for not getting it. Of course it's worth it, and we are better now than ten years ago by far. Thanks for answering -- I realized on reading your message it sounded like a new boyfriend maybe? Yes, actually he is my boyfriend, sigh, but also husband for a long time.
ientsari intimate cool fusion
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Originally Posted by
Raver
According to the sacred laws of Socionics, this is impossible and one of you must be mistyped.
Well of course it's possible. What were you talking about though exactly, before I go on?
(I did go on quite a bit, but luckily for you deleted all the frim fram about our night: moving house for a friend who seems to have built a cartoon lighthouse in the middle of a suburb tract, love it, debating gravity, why we love cold fusion, and visiting "The Slaughtered Lamb" ahh, small towns.