Originally Posted by
lungs
she obviously doesn't know what she wants. she's probably at least as confused as you are.
i don't think it really matters if you follow those "guidelines" or whatever she set out because it was probably just her trying to make sense of it to herself.
probably the best course of action is to play it by ear and accept there's no guarantee of anything.
the surest strategy that comes to mind is at least taking things very slow so that she can warm up to the idea of somebody so much younger and let go of some of her worries about you being a player.
i know this doesn't give you much to go off of, but that's just my view, putting myself in her shoes.