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7 months without asking her out? Good job. Within a decade or two you'll probably accidentally touch hands and then it's officially called dating.Quote:
Originally Posted by Leader
Bud, you've got to put it out what you want and how you feel and the available way forwards.
This allows for a clear rejection or acceptance to stop the pussy footering about.
Sell yourself; thats always at the whim of the seller.
:love: YES!Quote:
Originally Posted by dolphin
Right, well my goal is to at least take them out for a coffee so I can sit them down and judge them... I mean date them. (lulz) And if they aren't willing to do that, move on.Quote:
Originally Posted by jennifer1
Holy shit, thunder in gamma again, that's a really fucked up quadra.
Pfff, I'm sexy as shit in person. Could model if I was taller.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fireyed
http://www.jokesduniya.com/wp-conten...mous-model.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Leader
Did you ever get dirt under your colourful fingernails, cute Natasha?
Wasn't funny. Didn't make sense. Go kill yourself.
I already did once - one can't kill himself twice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Leader
Insecurity is such a bitch. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fireyed
That's exactly what I'm pondering on right now : should I fuck a IEI or should I not? They seem so full of shit. EIE also fuck with your feelings but at least they don't do it only with you.
:(
This thread reminds me of being 17.
There is no reasonable explanation for this. It is cruel and disgusting and cowardly and fucking selfish. What a pathetic insincere douchebag.Quote:
Originally Posted by xerx
Sorry, it's just the worst to abandon people like that without warning. I have been there and it hurts so much more because it is so fucking confusing and heartbreaking.
@Ananke, it sounds like a platitude I know, but it gets better and this, too, shall pass. Good riddance.
Because I'm accusing you of being a homosexual. Are you insulted yet?
You're both being over dramatic.
Well yeah, probably.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kim
He's a lame backbone less assholeQuote:
Originally Posted by xerx
I retract my earlier statements. I wasn't there to witness his motives and therefore don't have enough information to describe his character. EDIT: that also applies to most of you guys.
You're right. His action was lame , cowardly and backboneless.Quote:
Originally Posted by xerx
Sorry, you're wrong about what I said.. that's not what I was getting at at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaftPunk
OkQuote:
Originally Posted by xerx
yeah the last IEI I spoke to stopped messaging me and answering my phone calls when up until that point everything she said was "oh that sounds fun!" "Oh lets do this together!". then a couple weeks later when I said, "ok I won't bother you anymore" she finally responded saying sorry. She also apparently turned phonetically black.
*shrug*
I find IEI's to be huge flakes. It probably takes them some fucking balls to speak their genuine minds, much like the rest of humanity. That's why I run away from people who agree with everything I say, or make themselves too available. I think I need to practice saying the words, "sounds like bullshit" instead of letting that behavior continue around me. This is where LSI's earn my respect. They're also hot as hell and capable of keeping up with my entrepreneurial mindset. From what I understand, IEI's are more into tagging along instead of being a proactive business partner. But I suppose that could change over time if she cared enough. I know my EIE friend is becoming very business savy after hanging around me long enough.
I wish my dual was LII. Life would be much more simple. "Hey, let me bathe you." "Ok." *love*
Moving on. I love a challenge, and I love going after a girl who can't be got. But the person has to be honest with me, and not all of this "omg me too!" shit. They're pickup artists in their own way.
i wanted to ask if it's a new year jokeQuote:
Originally Posted by Scapegrace
Yeah, IEI men can scare me too.
I was having a gchat conversation yesterday with one that was trying to get me to do something that I didn't want to do, and after it was over I kind of wanted to cry. I mean, I deflected him, but he was pulling me up and then down, making me refuse him then suddenly being warm and nice and offering me hopeful advice about my life, as if he was "gifting" me something after I had proven stupid.
What was worse was that after the convo was over I suddenly felt like the chances for me to do that thing were over, if I didn't agree to do it it would no longer be the right time in my life to do so. I kind of freaked out and was quietly distraught for a day and a half. I don't think he said anything specifically to this point, but I had an overwhelming sense of this after talking to him, even though I could easily read his emotional signals and *knew* he was manipulating me, and have knowledge of socionics on top of that. I think that's pretty impressive. I had to talk to an ILE friend (who assured me that none of my opportunities were closing down) before reaching equilibrium again.
I take back anything I said earlier disparaging the power of IEI's. That NiFe man. Like knowing how to strike a person in their weakest spot without even being cognitively conscious of what the weakest spot is- it seemed like he just "felt" his way into it.
The main problem in my relationship with the IEI was not so mucn being a dick in the full sense of the word, but a strange and surprising disloyalty. While not long ago I was the source of so much love and passion. I'm not talking about a mutual understanding, I'm talking about someone being very open to others and expecting you to go with the flow because "that's what I feel, I'm just being myself, it's a part of me". There was no discussion beforehand regarding the form of the relationship, just a natural shift in feelings. And a serene welcoming of the new feelings .... Hard to understand. --- for me at least , maybe SLE is fine with it with their own changing and on-and-off.Quote:
Originally Posted by octo
...No SLE is not fine with it. IEIs are actors and cowards.