Compatible instinct stacking theory..
My interest in this was sparked by Clumsys thread "Instinctual stackings and relationships."
Over the last week I've become very interested in instinct stackings and I've realized they have a MAJOR effect on compatibilty. I've been thinking about my own experiences with other stackings & reading descriptions by enneagram writers, and various personality boards to hear other peoples opinions. I came to the conclusion that we're likely to be compatibile with those who share the same sexual variant position, especially those with the sp and so reversed:
If you're so/ sx, you would be most compatible with sp/ sx.
If you're so/ sp, you would be most compatible with sp/ so.
If you're sx/ so, you would be most compatible with sx/ sp.
IME It can even make us more compatible with certain sociotypes, just one example being my childhood best friend - an IEE 6w7 so/sx.. I'm sp/sx; of course we quarreled sometimes but the friendship was so strong - we were like sisters and we had great fun together for contrary type relations (almost as if we had a little drop of socionics duality in there).
Do you have any criticisms of this theory?.. doesn't it match your interactions? and, What are your real life experiences with those who I theorized to be your most compatible partners?
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