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Originally Posted by Joy
particularly a Si PoLR... do you relate to this?
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If someone wants to bother me, really the only way to do it is to look around my house and say "How can you stand to live surrounded by toys in the livingroom and dishes in the sink and clothes on the bedroom floor and papers all over the dining room table?" or criticize the way I care for the eating habits of myself and my family (no, we don't eat healthy foods most of the time, we eat what is easy and inexpensive) or that I'm wearing the same clothes I wore for the last two days (most likely because I haven't had a shower since then) and haven't shaved in two weeks. It bothers me because they're right and there's really nothing I can say to defend myself.
ISFp boyfriend who takes care of the house cleaning and cooking:
Toys in the living room? got it
Dishes in the sink? got it (in fact I'm the one who has to set the rule that all the dishes have to get done after each meal...and he felt less frustrated when each of us got our own set of dishes and we have to wash our own dishes...he washes mine though cuz he luvs me)
Clothes on the bedroom floor? had it (I got a three bag holder for containing our dirty clothes)
Piles of papers/books? got it
Eating habits? prefers to eat while watching Simpsons or a 30 min show. Food is not necessarily healthy, and if he can get away with buying pizza/take out, he will.
Comes home from work, puts on the same set of shorts (lasts a week) and uses 2 home shirts a week. However, he does shower nightly.
Shaves every other sunday. (and he produces a lot of hair!)
Doesn't feel a need to defend the way he lives. "Accept it or don't" is his attitude.
So, basically, i don't think that that paragraph above applies to weak/polr Si.