How would you describe your relationship with them and how did :Ti: polr manifest itself (in your relationship with them)?
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How would you describe your relationship with them and how did :Ti: polr manifest itself (in your relationship with them)?
I played music with one :)
We got along solid, though we kept not connecting in the music; he wanted to create atmosphere and be mellow and sad, I just wanted to fucking roar! He kept complaining every time things started to really kick ass; never locked in with me, just kept draping melodies and atmosphere over everything, which were actually pretty good, but I could never get a sense of power and momentum from things for as long as that was going on, and it was just relentless...
I also knew another one as a friend/acquaintance; she was really cool and I admired her a lot, but once again, we couldn't completely connect over much, really...
Maybe it's an individual person thing, these ones seemed to really be seeking :Si: in retrospect...
This reminds me a lot of my experience jamming with my SEE friend. It always feels like he wants music to be a certain way and I just want it to be my own way. So he would try to pressure me to play something more to his liking, which frustrates me because I just wanted to play anything I could think of creatively, which was me fulfilling my :Ne: desires. This of course would irritate him because I'd refuse to conform to his :Se: standards. Outside of music we mostly get along, but when it comes to music, it's just a huge clash of :Ne: vs. :Se:, which just frustrates the both of us.